AWARE Sex Guide Suspended

[Porfirio Rubirosa]

what about straight women on lesbians?...quite afew close female straight friends of mine appear none too keen on lesbians but are quite receptive to gay men apart from sighing at their 'wasted' good looks:p

Unlike straight men, straight women don't generally get ballistic about homosexuality.We just find it intriguing and maybe weird, and feel sorry for the person. Have you ever heard a woman being intense on the subject of homosexuality?

There's a personal angle here somewhere.

 

[Porfirio Rubirosa]

i would be even more interested to hear the views of men who indulge in anal sex with their female lovers but are disgusted and revolted by gay men

Thats interesting. Come to think of it, have not heard of female acquintances or family members going bonkers over it. I wonder if men perceive it as an attack on their manhood, king of jungle, stud angle.

Now you tweaked my curiosity.

 

[Porfirio Rubirosa]

aiyah what to do...guess she likes getting shafted by the PAPs once in awhile...

Pastor Father Niemoller
First they came for the Jews, but I did nothing because I'm not a Jew. Then they came for the socialists, but I did nothing because I'm not a socialist. Then they came for the Catholics, but I did nothing because I'm not a Catholic. Finally, they came for me, but by then there was no one left to help me.

I am nauseated by Eleanor Tee!

 

[Porfirio Rubirosa]

what about the role of the family and its place in society?

For eg, in the homosexual regime, men's roles are not linked to their roles as fathers, as producers of families, as providers, etc. Women's roles too are not seen as involving subservience to men. So, it upsets the patriarchal apple cart.

Actually a lot has been written on heterosexual men's homophobia and the cultural causes of this. Might help to google "heterosexuality regime".

 

[scroobal]

Caligula would be the appropriate shock therapy followed by Philadelphia to bring out the "melancholy"

Followed by a fireside chat at an offsite location with a couple of SBF guys and gals and not to mention single malt to ease it down.

i suggest they all sit through a screening of 'Philadelphia' starring Tom Hanks and Denzel Washington for starters...but a big no to 'Caligula'...don't want to give any of the mary whitehouse/thio su mien gang a heart attack

 

[scroobal]

Ever heard of the Green River Killer that terrorised the West Coast of the US for decades, killing prostitutes. Turns out that he was known in his town for complaining about prostitiutes and jay walkers,even calling the Police on them. Yet he was patronising them.

Self denial might be playing a major factor hear. No different to bible thumping TV evangelist who are high on morals but get caught in trysts with male and female lovers on a regular basis. Confession follows , then seeking repentence and back to bible thumping and moralising. John Bakker, Jesse Jackson and list goes on.

The guy who flicks thru Penthhouse at the local supermarket in plain view is probably the most decent of the lot.

i would be even more interested to hear the views of men who indulge in anal sex with their female lovers but are disgusted and revolted by gay men

 

[Porfirio Rubirosa]

some truth to that bro...on both counts

Self denial might be playing a major factor hear. No different to bible thumping TV evangelist who are high on morals but get caught in trysts with male and female lovers on a regular basis. Confession follows , then seeking repentence and back to bible thumping and moralising. John Bakker, Jesse Jackson and list goes on.


The guy who flicks thru Penthhouse at the local supermarket in plain view is probably the most decent of the lot.

 

[scroobal]

Seen enough in school days and in corporate world to bolster that thought.

some truth to that bro...on both counts

 

[Porfirio Rubirosa]

i tell you bro...this where we can certainly take a leaf out of the book from the scandanavians and the dutch...i was in copenhagan one summer and use to see young blonde babes baring their breasts once in awhile in public with no one batting an eyelid

Seen enough in school days and in corporate world to bolster that thought.

 

[scroobal]

Agree. Dutch friend of mine told me that his daughters began consuming alcohol in their early teens while at the family table. You know where the Dutch stand when it comes to porn. Their society has not deteriorated and I wonder why.

The Japanese are another lot when it comes to sexuality. They are open about it.

i tell you bro...this where we can certainly take a leaf out of the book from the scandanavians and the dutch...i was in copenhagan one summer and use to see young blonde babes baring their breasts once in awhile in public with no one batting an eyelid

 

[bellepepper02]

what about straight women on lesbians?...quite afew close female straight friends of mine appear none too keen on lesbians but are quite receptive to gay men apart from sighing at their 'wasted' good looks:p

Really? I generally find straight women to be quite unperturbed or just generally curious at being told another woman is gay. I came from a girls' school where there were the usual teenage lesbian relationships, but nobody really minded.

 

[bellepepper02]

what about the role of the family and its place in society?

As the Marxist critic Louis Althusser said, the family is one of the ideological state apparatuses. (Education system is another.)

Nothing quite like a strong family institution (with all the hierarchy and fixed gender roles) to bring society in line, to provide constraints to people's behaviour. Governments rely on it all the time to keep society in check.

Fixed/restricted gender roles are crucial to the proper functioning of families.

The family is also the centre of capital accumulation. So it's central to the nation's prosperity. Women leaving men and being single mothers dissipates both family and national wealth. Singapore's nation-building went hand in hand with stamping out polygamy and developing the nuclear family unit.

 

[Porfirio Rubirosa]

not just alcohol and porn...also their 'famous bars' in amsterdam and i ain't talking about alcohol or coffee

yes japs are also open about sexuality which is quite unusual for asians...but they can sure be kinky at times:p

Agree. Dutch friend of mine told me that his daughters began consuming alcohol in their early teens while at the family table. You know where the Dutch stand when it comes to porn. Their society has not deteriorated and I wonder why.

The Japanese are another lot when it comes to sexuality. They are open about it.

 

[Porfirio Rubirosa]

interesting...generally that does not seem to be the impression i got and still get from my lady friends...although you are right about the school gal crush thinggy

Really? I generally find straight women to be quite unperturbed or just generally curious at being told another woman is gay. I came from a girls' school where there were the usual teenage lesbian relationships, but nobody really minded.

 

[Porfirio Rubirosa]

perhaps...but then again nothing beats familial ties, well to me at least

As the Marxist critic Louis Althusser said, the family is one of the ideological state apparatuses. (Education system is another.)

Nothing quite like a strong family institution (with all the hierarchy and fixed gender roles) to bring society in line, to provide constraints to people's behaviour. Governments rely on it all the time to keep society in check.

Fixed/restricted gender roles are crucial to the proper functioning of families.

The family is also the centre of capital accumulation. So it's central to the nation's prosperity. Women leaving men and being single mothers dissipates both family and national wealth. Singapore's nation-building went hand in hand with stamping out polygamy and developing the nuclear family unit.

 

[scroobal]

The post below is probably the most profound ever posted in this or any other local forum with every sentence loaded to the brim. You got to be more than a digit in this country.

If you already not in the public space enabling progress, you got to be out there. I suspect you are already out there.

I might not agree with some of your views but that bloody mind of yours is razor sharp.

This is the thing that I can't understand about Singapore. We pay big bucks to journalists and academics as political and social commentators but substance is generally mediocre and creative thinking zilch. I have seen such minds in the corporate world and in the international arena. The exception being one economist and one socioloist in NUS.

I however had chats with some good minds but their brilliance seem to come forth when we chat in the canteen during lunch or when it is time for a tipple after a dinner engagement. Not sure if its culture or avoiding conflict.

As the Marxist critic Louis Althusser said, the family is one of the ideological state apparatuses. (Education system is another.)

Nothing quite like a strong family institution (with all the hierarchy and fixed gender roles) to bring society in line, to provide constraints to people's behaviour. Governments rely on it all the time to keep society in check.

Fixed/restricted gender roles are crucial to the proper functioning of families.

The family is also the centre of capital accumulation. So it's central to the nation's prosperity. Women leaving men and being single mothers dissipates both family and national wealth. Singapore's nation-building went hand in hand with stamping out polygamy and developing the nuclear family unit.

 

[scroobal]

Thanks for the info.

That would include Thio Su Mein herself.

She had been warned not to carried out what she did but she ignored it. ( A certain minister had met her after the AWARE takeover). Soon she will have to face the wrath of her disobediance.

 

[scroobal]

Its a Japanese practice for Japanese mums to teach their daughters about pleasure of sex. Apparently they had sex toys before the west caught on. I have a very good friend in Tokyo married to a local lass and he would share some of the things as they raise their kids.

Our ardent railway traveller, ex-SU lecturer and persistent thorn for this regime mentioned that in his first railway travel book. I forgot the name.

Agree. Dutch friend of mine told me that his daughters began consuming alcohol in their early teens while at the family table. You know where the Dutch stand when it comes to porn. Their society has not deteriorated and I wonder why.

The Japanese are another lot when it comes to sexuality. They are open about it.

 

[scroobal]

Have to agree with you bro. I can't see order in this world without the family being in our midst. I also suspect that the human mind might be tested with the concept of family being absent. The same might apply to the animal kingdom.

perhaps...but then again nothing beats familial ties, well to me at least

 

[bellepepper02]

interesting...generally that does not seem to be the impression i got and still get from my lady friends...although you are right about the school gal crush thinggy

You hanging out with fundie Christian women?!!!