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Why are some women willing to be mistresses? Do you really understand her psychology?
A woman can never forgive a third party, but you also have to understand that there are still many women who choose to be a third party because in her heart, she has different needs from normal people. Let’s see. Can you understand the real reason why a woman chooses to be a mistress?
Why do women choose to be mistresses?
1. Lack of attention and attention
Women who are "mistresses" generally lack a sense of security in love, which stems from the lack of attention and attention from their parents since childhood. When this kind of woman meets a man who is mature, considerate, and able to care for her, even if the man is already married, she is willing to be with such a man, hoping that one day the other person will get divorced and finally get married. But most of these women find it difficult to achieve what they want. Because of the lack of security, such women lack the ability to love, and will complain and be picky about men. Most of them cannot stand the underground status of "mistress" and force men to divorce, or coerce men through pregnancy, etc. But men choose Most of the results are original marriages. Such "mistresses" often end up miserable. They feel cheated or betrayed. In extreme cases, they may choose to harm themselves or commit suicide.
2. The need to be cared for
Everyone wants to be cared for, especially women. However, as women get married and have children, they have to take care of others more and more, and they are cared for and cared for less and less. And this need is very strong. Once someone of the opposite sex can satisfy her need, she will easily become very dependent and get out of control. Women who are "mistresses" generally lack a sense of security in love, which stems from the lack of attention and attention from their parents since childhood. This type of woman should meet a man who is mature, considerate, and able to care for and care for her. Because of the lack of security, such women lack the ability to love, and will complain and be picky about men. Most of them cannot stand the underground status of "mistress" and force men to divorce, or coerce men through pregnancy, etc. But men choose Most of the results are original marriages. Most women play the role of caregivers in the family, taking care of men and children. In fact, women need more care both psychologically and physically. Don’t you see that married women are more likely to age and become haggard than women who never marry?
3. Because of Electra complex
Love without the purpose of marriage is just a hooligan. Women who are willing to be mistresses without the purpose of marriage are all because of their Electra complex. Such women are very fond of married mature men, so regardless of whether the other party has At home, they all want to be favored by this man, and they want to get care and love for themselves from this man. Even if they are mistresses, they are willing to do so.
4. The mentality of indolence and indolence
There are also some women who become "mistresses" because they are quite beautiful, but because of low education or low self-esteem, they are indolent and indolent, and they obtain money and materials through this method. Most married and successful men become the targets of such "mistresses". Fame, status and wealth have become utilitarian factors for such women to become "mistresses". If these are satisfied, they can accept it calmly even if they cannot marry a matchmaker. Most of the "mistresses" who were investigated and dealt with by corrupt officials fall into this category.
5. Relieve inner loneliness
Men have gatherings with friends every now and then, and go out for drinks and massages to relieve stress from time to time. The only women who stay at home to take care of their children are lonely women. In fact, women also have social needs and hope to have their own social circle instead of just family and children. Once most women get married, work and family take up too much time, and friendship becomes a luxury. In fact, she hopes to resolve her psychological loneliness. With the development of the Internet, it is inevitable that some conditions just meet her psychological needs, and she has embarked on a wrong path.
6. Lack of security in love
Women who choose to be mistresses are insecure about love. Such women do not like to fall in love with single boys because they feel that such men are unreliable and insecure. When they meet someone who can give them care and consideration When they are married to a man, regardless of whether he has a family or not, they have already fallen in love with such a man. They are willing to be a mistress. At the same time, they also hope that the other person can fall in love with them so that they can divorce and stay with them forever. Such a woman is so insecure that she may even hurt herself for such a man, or force a man to marry her.
If a man really loves you, he won't let you be a mistress. If he pretends to love you but is actually just playing with you, then there is no need to continue.
Some people will say that he promised me that he would divorce his wife. Then it depends on whether he takes action. If he keeps saying no action, he's lying to you. Don't trust a man's promises but look at his concrete actions.
I have said before that men are rarely willing to divorce their wives because they not only have children, they have familiar habits with each other, and most importantly, they have common interests. If you get divorced, it will involve things like dividing property. Therefore, if a man is willing to play outside, it does not necessarily lead to divorce. Therefore, if you want to be a mistress for the sake of love, you must carefully consider whether the man is really willing to divorce you.
