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Leongsam

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Why does Muslim insist on converting spouses when married? Are they afraid the religion is unable to stand on its own merits?

Islam permits a Muslim man to marry a Christian or a Jewish woman without her having to convert to Islam.
 

syed putra

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Alot of chinese don't mind seeing their kind killed and murdered. Then having a romantic view of other races. Just have one non chinese say indian/malay/burmese smile at one non racially aware chinese and he/she will be singing their praises to the skies and how all of them are so cool and nice etc. :rolleyes: Yet they won't do the same for their own race.

CPM(communist party of Malaya) chin peng murdered more Chinese in Malaya then those killed in Jakarta riot. And his problem persist until the late 80's with Haadyai peace accord. Malays in the army and police got whacked the most.
 

syed putra

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Inter-racial (worse when inter-religous is added in) marriage is hard to sustain. After the initial infatuation, I hope she wakes up and thinks rationally. Even Joanne Peh has to give up her Italian saussage for a Cantonese Lup Cheong.

Rubbish. It all depends on the wheels of fate. Sometimes it works and other time it does not.
 

syed putra

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I for one wish them a happy married life..and eventually have 2 sons delivering fast foods for competing fast food chains
on their eco friendly motor cycles, and also have 2 lovely single parent daughters with hard working N stream /ITE grandchildren
and they all live in a rented single room HDB flat happily ever after.

That's because fast food outlets are not owned by chinaman and does not discriminate when employing minorities.
 

syed putra

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anyway, marriage is not 2 person issue, it 2 families issue, for her case, must add 2 races issue.

the mat maybe chin cai type but what about his family? peer pressure very powerful inside malay community. look at the current tudang wearing campaign, most of them, 80% of those tudang wearing women don't step inside mosque even once a year. most of them even bet on 4D and Toto, they not at all religious in the first place.

The real reason so many wear tudang and wear those gunny sack clothing is because must follow the trend, it the "IN" thing, especially those mom with school going children, normally become friend friend with each other while waiting at the school gate. They will gossip on malay women who not in same "fashion" as them, so to blend in, so must wear the same stuff. My mat colleague driver told me the above as his wife ask him for $$ to buy those clothings. He kpkb because of it as to him it a waste of money, especially his wife previous styling was those tight fitting minah fashion, that mean he must pay as she replace everything.

Muslims nowadays dress like Arabs because of peer pressure. If they have strong mentality, they will dress as they wish.
 

Charlie99

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if they want to marry and the guy remain a muslim, then under law, she will have to convert to islam. period. no conversion, ROM would not accept their application to marry.

as for the usual malay sterotype of lazy, guitar at void deck and cubkia motorsiao mat rempit may no longer be relevant. My Mat neighbour a clean cut guy, 3 kids, eldest son Victoria JC, now NSF, waiting for Uni application, daughter Anderson JC, youngest son RI. The children don't hang out at neighbourhood playground, their Mom very strict, seems to be a grad who become a housewife. Of course with every one of this type of family, there are 4-5 mess up type families but slowly as they more educated, the mess up type get less and less.

I am aware that the Malays have become more ambitious, hardworking, driven, educated, skilled, and socially upward mobile.
 

Charlie99

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Inter-racial (worse when inter-religous is added in) marriage is hard to sustain. After the initial infatuation, I hope she wakes up and thinks rationally. Even Joanne Peh has to give up her Italian saussage for a Cantonese Lup Cheong.

Inter-racial is probably easier than different religion, unless there is mutual respect, and an agreement on how the children will be raised.
 

glockman

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There are some malays who are educated, wealthy and accomplished. Still, at the end of the day they are muslims and subscribe to a different set of beliefs than the non-muslims. This girl will be making a big mstake.
 

Charlie99

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different principles and beilieves

With respect, if we look around the world, we see many institutions, hospitals, schools and charities built by the Christians and the Jews.
More importantly, the Jews have invented numerous things, very significantly more than their pro-rata share of the world's population.
If certain religious group(s) were to boycott the things invented and/or made by the Jews, they will miss out on many of the scientific and medical advances / inventions.
 

ChaoPappyPoodle

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What's wrong? I know Chinese guys who married a minah. Big deal. :rolleyes:

No need for circumcision or conversion. Religion is less of a deal than you make it out to be.

The question is whether the Chinese guys converted to Islam. Islam is Arabic in nature. All the Chinese I know that married minah converted. Not so for other races. Chinese damn desperate for brown sugar. :biggrin:

Never ever convert to Islam. It is Arabic tribe culture which is not even close to being a religion. If you convert to Islam then all your children will automatically be Muslims. And all your grandchildren will be come Muslims. They will murder you if you leave Islam and your husband migrates to a Shariah country. You better think 100 times before converting. You look at all the hate, terrorism, rape and murders comimtted by Musilms and that should be warning enough of what they preach.

Four wives, raping captives, fucking slaves are all allowed to Muslims. Even fucking babies and animals are allowed depending on which imam you listen to. There is complete lack of law although they pretend that there is god's law. It's all unproven and just one man talking or writing and some idiot believing and then killing those that do not believe. :*:


https://themuslimissue.wordpress.com/2013/01/16/islam-the-lust-of-the-prophet/
 

ChaoPappyPoodle

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When did Islam changed this principle?

Islam always changes but it becomes worse! Leongsam is as usual talking out of his arse. You never know about Islam other than what is in the quran and it isn't good if you are not a Muslim. Muslims are allowed to murder, behead, rape, enslave, torture, terrorize and force you into submission if you are not a Muslim. These parts have not changed.
 
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