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When a woman outshines her man

babuSingh

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a marriage is a union of one man n woman who can tolerate one another, make the other party laugh, act stupid and still get away with it amd most importantly, able to be there for the other party much better than the best of buddies....why will someone bring neogotiation and career issues to your other half? He is your best friemd not your best colleague....
 

JohnTan

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Marketing director Amy Tan, 36, also felt this was an issue. "A lot of women I know wouldn't mind marrying down, but a lot of men I know say 'no, thank you'."

I know many more women would mind. Many more women would mind dating a guy who is less successful than she is.

There is also the problem when couples get married. They both start off roughly at the same level, but when the wives outshine their husbands years later, they often make it clear that they think their husbands are losers and should shape up or risk getting a divorce. Then when the divorce happens, they blame the husbands for being male chauvinists for not being able to accept their success.

I am glad I manage to take the easy road. I did better in my career than my wife and so do not have to worry about this issue. Now, we are pondering about my wife quitting her work and working flexi so that she can spend more time with the family. Money is no longer an issue for my family since we have enough of it.
 

Asterix

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Opinions of those who do not understand
Esssence of the relationship
Need not concern you
On the other hand should relationship
Fundamentally change for
Whatever reason cost of untangling
Should be kept to minimum
So fark Lightning for Woman's Charter


[video=youtube;dTd2ylacYNU]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dTd2ylacYNU[/video]
 

laksaboy

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This is when a woman is highly encouraged to outshine her man:

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jw5

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Forummer babuSingh is so wise. :wink:

a marriage is a union of one man n woman who can tolerate one another, make the other party laugh, act stupid and still get away with it amd most importantly, able to be there for the other party much better than the best of buddies....why will someone bring neogotiation and career issues to your other half? He is your best friemd not your best colleague....
 

blackmondy

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Grace Fu was dumped by her doctor first husband who found her intolerable to live with. She now has to settle for a 'technopreneur'.

Cannot blame the doctor.

Very hard to fuck a woman when she reminds him of Jacky Chan with her fucking big nose......
 

congo9

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I know many more women would mind. Many more women would mind dating a guy who is less successful than she is.

There is also the problem when couples get married. They both start off roughly at the same level, but when the wives outshine their husbands years later, they often make it clear that they think their husbands are losers and should shape up or risk getting a divorce. Then when the divorce happens, they blame the husbands for being male chauvinists for not being able to accept their success.

I am glad I manage to take the easy road. I did better in my career than my wife and so do not have to worry about this issue. Now, we are pondering about my wife quitting her work and working flexi so that she can spend more time with the family. Money is no longer an issue for my family since we have enough of it.


Trouble start when she wants to wear the pants in the house. She demands equality and be treated as women as well. Men and women are different and there is no way to be equal. Maybe equal in work responsibility. Women has become more educated and can perform in their area of work.

Marriage relationship should be segregated by responsibility, so that couple should not have any little quarrel and overlap. Not by joint decision and equal partnership as many has believed.
 

Equalisation

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It is a fact.

In order for the man to be a Genuine Champion, he has to hold a woman's handbag during outings especially at the wire.:eek::o:cool:
 
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