Why do married couples drift apart after years together?

[True Believer]

After decades together, some married couples find themselves drifting apart. The bond can weaken owing to a mix of things, including old conflicts that were never resolved and expectations that went unfulfilled. Over time, partners may change in ways they didn’t anticipate, with new priorities and interests emerging during different life stages like retirement or becoming empty nesters. A decline in quality time, less open communication, or a stressful financial situation can also erode intimacy and lead to emotional distance. Any Samsters would like to share how they keep the spark alive in their marriage?

 

[syed putra]

After getting kids, bonking time is reduced. Abd early morning bonks cancelled as need to prepare kids breakfast etc before school.

 

[True Believer]

After getting kids, bonking time is reduced. Abd early morning bonks cancelled as need to prepare kids breakfast etc before school.

As couples age, our priorities, goals and personal identities shift, leading to diverging values and interests with our spouses.

 

[laksaboy]

Because monogamy is a very recent social invention, reinforced as the 'norm' by organized religions and governments.

Monogamy is unnatural and against human nature. Once you fight against nature, you will inevitably lose.

 

[eatshitndie]

yeastern depot bau too strong?

 

[VanDick]

The best advice is to stay away from marriage. 3/4 of all your life problems will be gone instantly.

 

[syed putra]

The best advice is to stay away from marriage. 3/4 of all your life problems will be gone instantly.

If you marry, your problems more than doubled taking into account in laws.
Multiplied by the number of kids you got. Hence a well financially compensated housewife will reduce that burden.

 

[Loofydralb]

After decades together, some married couples find themselves drifting apart. The bond can weaken owing to a mix of things, including old conflicts that were never resolved and expectations that went unfulfilled. Over time, partners may change in ways they didn’t anticipate, with new priorities and interests emerging during different life stages like retirement or becoming empty nesters. A decline in quality time, less open communication, or a stressful financial situation can also erode intimacy and lead to emotional distance. Any Samsters would like to share how they keep the spark alive in their marriage?

That's the wonder and wisdom of Islam. You can marry four!

At this stage of your wife's life, she is totally uninterested in intimacy. However, her denying you intimacy is cruel because men remain virile till old age. Thus the best solution is to marry another. You need to have your needs met, otherwise it'll be killer.
You will reach a stage where both of you will not talk but remain civil. You will change and start to be quiet and she notices it. You will start to sleep separate rooms.
Your frustrations and lack of intimacy slowly eats you up inside. You say to yourself, you want to die because that is better.
One day your wife will find you dead on the bed or couch because your heart stopped.

Then she will tell everyone she noticed you've changed lately and became quiet. And she propound the theory that your change, somehow is a sign that you know the end is near. Little does she realise that she is the cause that killed you.

 

[True Believer]

That's the wonder and wisdom of Islam. You can marry four! At this stage of your wife's life, she is totally uninterested in intimacy. However, her denying you intimacy is cruel because men remain virile till old age. Thus the best solution is to marry another. You need to have your needs met, otherwise it'll be killer.You will reach a stage where both of you will not talk but remain civil. You will change and start to be quiet and she notices it. You will start to sleep separate rooms.Your frustrations and lack of intimacy slowly eats you up inside. You say to yourself, you want to die because that is better. One day your wife will find you dead on the bed or couch because your heart stopped. Then she will tell everyone she noticed you've changed lately and became quiet. And she propound the theory that your change, somehow is a sign that you know the end is near. Little does she realise that she is the cause that killed you.

You are heading for a premature death because you have 4 mothers-in-law to put up with. LOL!

 

[jsctan]

If need to have sparks, need efforts.
At old age, better to just live away from each other like before marriage. Meet up, fewer conflicts as tolerance level no longer at courtship time.

 

[Leongsam]

Here's the answer....

 

[True Believer]

If you marry, your problems more than doubled taking into account in laws. Multiplied by the number of kids you got. Hence a well financially compensated housewife will reduce that burden.

Many couples stop making their relationship a priority by allowing their career, children or other obligations to take up too much of their time and attention. As a result, the couple enjoy less quality time together.

 

[True Believer]

If need to have sparks, need efforts. At old age, better to just live away from each other like before marriage. Meet up, fewer conflicts as tolerance level no longer at courtship time.

Over many years of marriage, the spouses develop different interests or values. If partners do not find new common interests, they are likely to grow in different directions. The main reason is that familiarity breeds contempt.

 

[WangChuk]

After decades together, some married couples find themselves drifting apart. The bond can weaken owing to a mix of things, including old conflicts that were never resolved and expectations that went unfulfilled. Over time, partners may change in ways they didn’t anticipate, with new priorities and interests emerging during different life stages like retirement or becoming empty nesters. A decline in quality time, less open communication, or a stressful financial situation can also erode intimacy and lead to emotional distance. Any Samsters would like to share how they keep the spark alive in their marriage?

1 day 3 meal eat Abalone oso will eat until sian and go eat Hum for a change .... U marry a Miss Universe as wifey oso will want to try geylang chickens for a change ... no?

 

[True Believer]

1 day 3 meal eat Abalone oso will eat until sian and go eat Hum for a change .... U marry a Miss Universe as wifey oso will want to try geylang chickens for a change ... no?

The verse: "Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God," can be found in the Bible in Matthew 4:4 emphasising that spiritual nutrition from God's word is more important than physical food.

 

[True Believer]

1 day 3 meal eat Abalone oso will eat until sian and go eat Hum for a change .... U marry a Miss Universe as wifey oso will want to try geylang chickens for a change ... no?

Even a durian lover like me will grow sick and tired of the king of fruits if I have to eat it everyday.

 

[Pinkieslut]

Fuck same Cheebye for years of course Sian.

 

[Loofydralb]

You are heading for a premature death because you have 4 mothers-in-law to put up with. LOL!

In Islam MIW has zero say and only FIL has a say. And men are more rational.

 

[True Believer]

In Islam MIW has zero say and only FIL has a say. And men are more rational.

How rational can men be when most of them think only with their "little head"?

 

[laksaboy]

This Chinese essay on old CBs helps to explain.

Thread 'Chinese essay on old CBs'

Thursday at 1:00 PM

https://bbs.boniu123.cc/thread-727810-1-1.html

(Google translated)

Many people have mentioned the term "old pussy" (lao pu bai huo)! So let's start today with that.

What is old pussy? Why does it help with heat? Let's first discuss "old pussy." "Lao pu bai" is a simple pronoun referring to an older woman. "Lao pu bai" refers to a part of an older woman's body. It's an insulting term. What kind of woman is considered an old woman? There's probably a difference between ancient and modern times. In ancient times, the average age was younger, and people over 35 or 40 were...

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First, they lack visual appeal. Old women are essentially yellow-faced. No matter how much they maintain their appearance, they can't hide the wrinkles and aging skin. Men no longer find them beautiful. Once they take off their pants, most pussies are already black. A black, aged pussy is likely to make many men lose their dick. Second, their sense of touch is poor. Touching an older woman's body, the skin is no longer smooth and delicate, and may even begin to show signs of freckles. Muscle tissue has also lost its elasticity, leaving it feeling soft and limp, a sign of aging. The vaginal tissue has also lost its elasticity, making it less comfortable for men to wrap around.

An old woman, whose breasts and vagina have been toyed with by men for twenty or thirty years, has a saying from ancient times: "Women are like clothes." An old woman is like a piece of clothing worn for thirty years. No matter how glamorous it once was, it has long since lost its luster. A man walking down the street wearing such clothing would only be laughed at. Imagine a 40-year-old man with the body of a 20-year-old girl. He would surely be admired and a symbol of success. Similarly, a man with a 50-year-old woman would be ridiculed and utterly undignified. In short, from a spiritual perspective, old women and old pussies are truly inferior.

Imagine a man facing an older woman. Her appearance alone already makes him frown. Then, when you strip her naked, you're faced with an aging body, sagging, dull skin, even with age spots, and severely sagging breasts and buttocks, devoid of elasticity. Spread her legs, and the vagina is black and smelly. At this point, most men probably lose interest. A few men can't hold back. After fucking her, the empty, hollow vagina feels like an older woman's breast, devoid of elasticity and no sense of containment. Even after a few fucks, it's completely dry, requiring saliva or lube. After ejaculating once into a vagina like that, I doubt you'll want to fuck it again, let alone three or seven times a night.