I've seen this before. I am still seeing this LIVE.
within my relative-family circle, PAP govt scholar married AMDK, about 25 years ago.
she now late 60s, suspect she must have search for online dating-marriage website and met and chose him.
3 years her senior. basically, fucking unemployed loafer. living off her money.
AMDK marry her money. marry her CPF. very clear.
she surrender all her insurance policies, withdraw all CPF, quit her job, migrate to US.
and then found a job there. midst of the dot com crash.
over here, you are govt scholar, top position in civil service. over there you are nothing but a mere office clerk.
worked in US for about 5 years, then obviously wiped out all her finances there.
then come back here, had to borrow money from her sibling and asked me about CPFIS. ( I was very much into the CPFIS then)
then secured a civil service job here after being jobless for about 1 year.
AMDK... on and off in Bangkok since day 1 till today. claiming all his kakis are there.
the rest are all quiet juicy gossip and monitoring among the relative circle here.
very delusional. PAP style.
recently she reach govt mandatory retirement age. off to retire in US.
these Angmos, they are not stupid.. they don't marry you and then dump you. you are not some super model or Miss USA or SGP.
they leech off your money. and keep the marriage alive. and continue living off your money and travel and fuck around the world using your money.
this Chua Mui Hoong, I am just going to compare her SIDE BY SIDE with this PAP scholar of mine.
I appreciate and thank Chua Mui Hoong for regularly posting updates on her new married life and her AMDK other half.