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THE SUN : Dear Deidre Letters
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My girlfriend and I had a threesome with my pal but now she wants to get more men involved – The Sun
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DEAR DEIDRE: I REALLY got off seeing my girlfriend getting it on with another guy – but now she wants more and I am worried.
We had a threesome with a good friend who was really up for it. We had been at a party together and got very drunk.
My girlfriend suggested we have a threesome with my sex-starved friendCredit: Getty - Contributor
My mate was staying with us so, when we got back home, we carried on drinking.
My pal is 27 but doesn’t have a girlfriend at the moment and I was giving him banter about being sex-starved. I thought my girlfriend was joking when she suggested we have a threesome there and then.
I’m 26 and my girlfriend is 25. We’ve been together for two years and have a great relationship.
She is petite with a figure to die for. She goes to the gym three times a week and is fit and toned.
It turned me on to see her make my pal moan, but now I'm worried she'll be dissatisfied with meCredit: Getty - Contributor
Before I really knew what was happening, we were all taking each other’s clothes off and getting sexual together. He and I didn’t touch each other and while she didn’t have full sex with him, he certainly enjoyed what she was doing and it turned me on hearing him moan.
We were all OK together the next day but I thought that was the end of it all when my friend left after breakfast. But she kept going on about it.
She says she’d like to do it with three guys at the same time — me, my friend from the other night and another mate whose manhood is double my size. I don’t know what to think.
I am turned on by the idea but would my girlfriend then be dissatisfied with me?
DEIDRE SAYS: Involving other people in your sex life always brings risks. It is all too easy for this sort of thing to go horribly wrong and you are already feeling threatened.
You got off on seeing and hearing your girlfriend with another guy – sort of porn brought to life – but suppose she decides she would rather have sex with that other guy than you? Or if she starts seeing him when you are not around? It happens all the time.
Tell your girlfriend that you care for her too much to see her have sex with other men.
If the real problem is that you and your girlfriend have become a bit bored sexually, there are lots of ways to add extra thrills together.
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DEAR DEIDRE: I REALLY got off seeing my girlfriend getting it on with another guy – but now she wants more and I am worried.
We had a threesome with a good friend who was really up for it. We had been at a party together and got very drunk.
My girlfriend suggested we have a threesome with my sex-starved friendCredit: Getty - Contributor
My mate was staying with us so, when we got back home, we carried on drinking.
My pal is 27 but doesn’t have a girlfriend at the moment and I was giving him banter about being sex-starved. I thought my girlfriend was joking when she suggested we have a threesome there and then.
I’m 26 and my girlfriend is 25. We’ve been together for two years and have a great relationship.
She is petite with a figure to die for. She goes to the gym three times a week and is fit and toned.
It turned me on to see her make my pal moan, but now I'm worried she'll be dissatisfied with meCredit: Getty - Contributor
Before I really knew what was happening, we were all taking each other’s clothes off and getting sexual together. He and I didn’t touch each other and while she didn’t have full sex with him, he certainly enjoyed what she was doing and it turned me on hearing him moan.
We were all OK together the next day but I thought that was the end of it all when my friend left after breakfast. But she kept going on about it.
She says she’d like to do it with three guys at the same time — me, my friend from the other night and another mate whose manhood is double my size. I don’t know what to think.
I am turned on by the idea but would my girlfriend then be dissatisfied with me?
DEIDRE SAYS: Involving other people in your sex life always brings risks. It is all too easy for this sort of thing to go horribly wrong and you are already feeling threatened.
You got off on seeing and hearing your girlfriend with another guy – sort of porn brought to life – but suppose she decides she would rather have sex with that other guy than you? Or if she starts seeing him when you are not around? It happens all the time.
Tell your girlfriend that you care for her too much to see her have sex with other men.
If the real problem is that you and your girlfriend have become a bit bored sexually, there are lots of ways to add extra thrills together.
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My life has been a nightmare since I cheated on my boyfriend – and now he wants a baby – The Sun
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DEAR DEIDRE: I CHEATED on my boyfriend and the sex was great – but it’s made my life a nightmare ever since.
My brother-in-law got a brilliant new job in Australia six months ago which meant he and my sister moved to the other side of the world.
I had amazing sex with an ex-colleague but regretted it instantlyCredit: Getty - Contributor
It was a terrible wrench for me. She’s my older sister and basically looked after me as a child because our mum was ill and our dad walked out.
I am a girl of 23 now and she is 27. I missed her so much but my boyfriend did not even notice.
He is 25 and just went out with his mates, making no effort to understand my feelings. One evening he shouted, “FFS stop being such a misery”, then stormed out to the pub.
The next day I bumped into an ex-colleague who asked how I was, because I looked a bit down.
My boyfriend didn't notice how much I was missing my sisterCredit: Getty - Contributor
I started to tell him and he said he was a good listener and suggested going for a drink and talking. He is 33.
It felt so good to be able to let it all out and know that someone else understood. He put his arm round me as we walked out to the car park and then he leaned over to kiss me. One thing led to another and we ended up having sex back at his place.
I regretted it instantly. We agreed afterwards that it must never happen again.
He’s basically a nice guy and I felt I could trust him.
I just want us to move on but I don't think having a baby is the right thing to doCredit: Getty - Contributor
However, my boyfriend found out about it recently when someone mentioned having seen me leaving the pub with the other guy.
He says I have really hurt him and made him feel insecure. I pointed out that we were not on the best of terms and he said, “That is a rubbish excuse”. He asked if that meant I’d do it again every time we have a row.
I have said how sorry I am and that I just want to move on. If I could go back in time and make a different decision I would.
He now wants us to try for a baby. He thinks it will bring us closer together and stop him thinking about me cheating. I’m not sure this is the right thing to do.
DEIDRE SAYS: You’re right to be wary. The strain of having a baby tends to worsen tensions in a relationship, not ease them.
Don’t consider becoming parents until you have sorted out the issues that this crisis has brought to the surface.
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DEAR DEIDRE: I CHEATED on my boyfriend and the sex was great – but it’s made my life a nightmare ever since.
My brother-in-law got a brilliant new job in Australia six months ago which meant he and my sister moved to the other side of the world.
I had amazing sex with an ex-colleague but regretted it instantlyCredit: Getty - Contributor
It was a terrible wrench for me. She’s my older sister and basically looked after me as a child because our mum was ill and our dad walked out.
I am a girl of 23 now and she is 27. I missed her so much but my boyfriend did not even notice.
He is 25 and just went out with his mates, making no effort to understand my feelings. One evening he shouted, “FFS stop being such a misery”, then stormed out to the pub.
The next day I bumped into an ex-colleague who asked how I was, because I looked a bit down.
My boyfriend didn't notice how much I was missing my sisterCredit: Getty - Contributor
I started to tell him and he said he was a good listener and suggested going for a drink and talking. He is 33.
It felt so good to be able to let it all out and know that someone else understood. He put his arm round me as we walked out to the car park and then he leaned over to kiss me. One thing led to another and we ended up having sex back at his place.
I regretted it instantly. We agreed afterwards that it must never happen again.
He’s basically a nice guy and I felt I could trust him.
I just want us to move on but I don't think having a baby is the right thing to doCredit: Getty - Contributor
However, my boyfriend found out about it recently when someone mentioned having seen me leaving the pub with the other guy.
He says I have really hurt him and made him feel insecure. I pointed out that we were not on the best of terms and he said, “That is a rubbish excuse”. He asked if that meant I’d do it again every time we have a row.
I have said how sorry I am and that I just want to move on. If I could go back in time and make a different decision I would.
He now wants us to try for a baby. He thinks it will bring us closer together and stop him thinking about me cheating. I’m not sure this is the right thing to do.
DEIDRE SAYS: You’re right to be wary. The strain of having a baby tends to worsen tensions in a relationship, not ease them.
Don’t consider becoming parents until you have sorted out the issues that this crisis has brought to the surface.
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I had sex with my sister and now we are having a full-on relationship
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DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE had sex with my sister. I knew it was wrong but it felt really good and now we are having a full-on relationship.
I’m 20 and she’s 17 — nearly 18. My dad walked out on my mum when I was one years old and we’ve not heard from him since.
We had sex like it was the most natural thing in the worldCredit: Getty - Contributor
Then mum’s boyfriend moved in and my sister was born soon after, so we don’t have the same dad.
My mum enjoys being with men and there was an endless succession of them throughout my childhood.
A few were OK but most were so creepy I didn’t want to get near, and that’s how my sister felt too. I tried to protect her and it felt like it was just me and her up against the whole world.
When she was 16 she told me that one of mum’s boyfriends was trying it on. I punched him and told him I’d tell the police if I saw him in the house again.
She started crying and saying she hated her lifeCredit: Getty - Contributor
I left home just as soon as I could, although I felt really guilty for leaving my sister alone with mum, who didn’t have a boyfriend at that time. My sister came around to where I am living a few months ago and asked me if she could stay.
She said it was awful at home. Mum’s new bloke is half her age — mum is 38 and he’s 21 — and my sister said it made her feel sick to be around them, plus he kept eyeing her up. I had to say yes.
One night we’d both had a few drinks. She started crying and saying she hated her life.
I gave her a cuddle to make her feel better. Then we kissed and had sex like it was the most natural thing in the world. We’ve been carrying on together now for six months.
She wants us to leave town, set up home somewhere new and have kids together but I know we can’t.
One of my friends found a sexy picture of her on my phone, wearing barely any clothes.
You couldn’t really see her face so I denied it was her but I know we are playing with fire.
DEIDRE SAYS: Please stop now and think this all through. You are breaking the law even if she is your half-sister. If you keep having sex you will surely be found out before long and get into serious trouble.
Not only that but you are risking a pregnancy which would cause immense heartache and massive problems.
I realise you love your sister but this isn’t helping her. In fact you are laying the foundations for huge emotional damage by having a sexual relationship with her.
Tell her that you’ll always be there as her brother but that you must put distance between you for now.
You both need some help so contact The Mix, who are there for under 25s, whatever the problem (themix.org.uk, 0808 808 4994).
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DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE had sex with my sister. I knew it was wrong but it felt really good and now we are having a full-on relationship.
I’m 20 and she’s 17 — nearly 18. My dad walked out on my mum when I was one years old and we’ve not heard from him since.
We had sex like it was the most natural thing in the worldCredit: Getty - Contributor
Then mum’s boyfriend moved in and my sister was born soon after, so we don’t have the same dad.
My mum enjoys being with men and there was an endless succession of them throughout my childhood.
A few were OK but most were so creepy I didn’t want to get near, and that’s how my sister felt too. I tried to protect her and it felt like it was just me and her up against the whole world.
When she was 16 she told me that one of mum’s boyfriends was trying it on. I punched him and told him I’d tell the police if I saw him in the house again.
She started crying and saying she hated her lifeCredit: Getty - Contributor
I left home just as soon as I could, although I felt really guilty for leaving my sister alone with mum, who didn’t have a boyfriend at that time. My sister came around to where I am living a few months ago and asked me if she could stay.
She said it was awful at home. Mum’s new bloke is half her age — mum is 38 and he’s 21 — and my sister said it made her feel sick to be around them, plus he kept eyeing her up. I had to say yes.
One night we’d both had a few drinks. She started crying and saying she hated her life.
I gave her a cuddle to make her feel better. Then we kissed and had sex like it was the most natural thing in the world. We’ve been carrying on together now for six months.
She wants us to leave town, set up home somewhere new and have kids together but I know we can’t.
One of my friends found a sexy picture of her on my phone, wearing barely any clothes.
You couldn’t really see her face so I denied it was her but I know we are playing with fire.
DEIDRE SAYS: Please stop now and think this all through. You are breaking the law even if she is your half-sister. If you keep having sex you will surely be found out before long and get into serious trouble.
Not only that but you are risking a pregnancy which would cause immense heartache and massive problems.
I realise you love your sister but this isn’t helping her. In fact you are laying the foundations for huge emotional damage by having a sexual relationship with her.
Tell her that you’ll always be there as her brother but that you must put distance between you for now.
You both need some help so contact The Mix, who are there for under 25s, whatever the problem (themix.org.uk, 0808 808 4994).
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My fiance had sex with another woman who sneers at me when I run into her in the street – The Sun
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DEAR DEIDRE: MY fiancé had what he calls “a fling” with another woman who sneers at me when I run into her in town. I hate her.
My fiancé and I met at work and we’ve been dating for two years. I fell pregnant so he moved out from his parents’ house to live with me. I’m 26, he’s 23 and our baby girl is three months old.
My fiancé's 'fling' sneers at me when every time I see her in the streetCredit: Getty - Contributor
Just before I was due to give birth, a colleague from work called me to say she wanted to meet up. When we did, she said she thought my fiancé was having an affair with a girl from accounts. I confronted him but he claimed they were just friends.
He looked guilty though, so I couldn’t get the thought of them together out of my head. When he was unusually late home one night, I confronted him again and he confessed to everything.
He said it was a fling rather than an affair because, “it was only about the sex — I didn’t really like her that much,” but he said he couldn’t handle the guilt of what he was doing to me.
I then messaged the girl and asked her to meet me. She’s 22. Their stories matched up but she also said she’d had sex in my bed when I’d been away for my baby shower.
When he was unusually late home one night, I confronted him again and he confessed to everythingCredit: Getty - Contributor
She said my fiancé told her that he wanted a baby with her and, although he had dumped her, she said: “I know I’ll get him in the end.”
My fiancé said that everything she had told me was lies. We have moved across town for a fresh start as I didn’t want to be in the same bedroom where she might have been.
We’re due to be married in 2021 and my sister keeps asking when I’m going to start my wedding planning but I keep thinking, “Do I want to be married to this person who has betrayed me?”
I have told him that if he ever does anything like that again, it will be the end of us. I’ve run into the stupid girl three times now and she always jeers at me.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You will be able to move on if your fiancé can prove to you that he understands he’s made a huge mistake and can convince you he’ll never do anything like this again.
When you see that girl in town, just let her stupid sneers roll off your back, but postpone wedding plans for now as it’s better to iron out the problems first rather than have a big wedding followed by an unhappy divorce.
I do hear from couples who come out with a stronger relationship after something like this. You both need to understand why it happened.
Was your fiancé feeling threatened by becoming a dad? Had your sex life taken a nose-dive – it’s no excuse but it could make him more vulnerable to cheating. Tell your fiancé he’s going to have to be loving and attentive – and a good dad – to turn things around.
My e-leaflet Cheating – Can You Get Over It? will help you decide if you can get things back on track and have a happy future together.
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DEAR DEIDRE: MY fiancé had what he calls “a fling” with another woman who sneers at me when I run into her in town. I hate her.
My fiancé and I met at work and we’ve been dating for two years. I fell pregnant so he moved out from his parents’ house to live with me. I’m 26, he’s 23 and our baby girl is three months old.
My fiancé's 'fling' sneers at me when every time I see her in the streetCredit: Getty - Contributor
Just before I was due to give birth, a colleague from work called me to say she wanted to meet up. When we did, she said she thought my fiancé was having an affair with a girl from accounts. I confronted him but he claimed they were just friends.
He looked guilty though, so I couldn’t get the thought of them together out of my head. When he was unusually late home one night, I confronted him again and he confessed to everything.
He said it was a fling rather than an affair because, “it was only about the sex — I didn’t really like her that much,” but he said he couldn’t handle the guilt of what he was doing to me.
I then messaged the girl and asked her to meet me. She’s 22. Their stories matched up but she also said she’d had sex in my bed when I’d been away for my baby shower.
When he was unusually late home one night, I confronted him again and he confessed to everythingCredit: Getty - Contributor
She said my fiancé told her that he wanted a baby with her and, although he had dumped her, she said: “I know I’ll get him in the end.”
My fiancé said that everything she had told me was lies. We have moved across town for a fresh start as I didn’t want to be in the same bedroom where she might have been.
We’re due to be married in 2021 and my sister keeps asking when I’m going to start my wedding planning but I keep thinking, “Do I want to be married to this person who has betrayed me?”
I have told him that if he ever does anything like that again, it will be the end of us. I’ve run into the stupid girl three times now and she always jeers at me.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You will be able to move on if your fiancé can prove to you that he understands he’s made a huge mistake and can convince you he’ll never do anything like this again.
When you see that girl in town, just let her stupid sneers roll off your back, but postpone wedding plans for now as it’s better to iron out the problems first rather than have a big wedding followed by an unhappy divorce.
I do hear from couples who come out with a stronger relationship after something like this. You both need to understand why it happened.
Was your fiancé feeling threatened by becoming a dad? Had your sex life taken a nose-dive – it’s no excuse but it could make him more vulnerable to cheating. Tell your fiancé he’s going to have to be loving and attentive – and a good dad – to turn things around.
My e-leaflet Cheating – Can You Get Over It? will help you decide if you can get things back on track and have a happy future together.
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I've been bedding my 'uncle' and now his son is blackmailing me into having sex too
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DEAR DEIDRE: I AM already in deep water after having a fling with my aunt’s new husband – and now his son is blackmailing me into having sex with him too.
I am 20, my aunt is 42 and her husband is 40. I found him attractive the first time we met at their engagement party but I never acted on my feelings.
Sex with my aunt's new boyfriend has led to real complicationsCredit: Getty - Contributor
At a recent family get-together, we were laughing, joking and flirting.
He went outside to his car and I followed.
He said he was glad I did, as that’s what he wanted.
He needed petrol to drive some family home afterwards and asked if I wanted to go for a drive in his new car.
We drove out of town instead of to the garage. He parked up and kissed me, saying he’d wanted to all evening.
I am being blackmailed and don't know how to get out of the situationCredit: Getty - Contributor
We had sex on the back seat. It was amazing.
I didn’t let on he was my first lover and now we text all the time. He is romantic, funny, kind and sensitive.
I went to his house last weekend while my aunt was at her mum’s and we had sex again.
We talked about our future but decided to keep things as they are for the time being.
He doesn’t want to upset my aunt and nor do I.
When I got home, his son texted, asking me to call his mobile.
He said he “had something important to say to me”.
I called and he said: “You didn’t see me but I walked in on you and Dad this afternoon. I know what’s going on.”
I begged him not to tell anyone.
Then he said he understood what his dad saw in me, as he fancied me too.
He said he’d keep quiet if I had sex with him. What do I do?
It’s just a bit of fun with his dad, though I can’t give him up.
The last thing I want, though, is to ruin his marriage — and for my whole family to find out.
DEIDRE SAYS: Tell his son you really hope he will not spill the beans but you are not going to be emotionally blackmailed into having sex with him.
Tell your lover what his son has seen and is saying to you.
He has as much reason as you – if not more – to want his son to keep quiet about what he saw.
If nothing else, this has proved you are playing a risky game.
You say you do not want your aunt to get hurt, to ruin her marriage or for your family to find out yet that is exactly what will happen if things carry on as they are.
You say you cannot give him up but he is offering you nothing.
He does not want your aunt to know and he is unlikely to walk away from his marriage.
You will go on being the other woman, which will not be enough for you in the long-term – especially given the age difference.
Show you are mature enough to end it now.
Then move on and find someone your own age who you don’t have to keep secret.
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DEAR DEIDRE: I AM already in deep water after having a fling with my aunt’s new husband – and now his son is blackmailing me into having sex with him too.
I am 20, my aunt is 42 and her husband is 40. I found him attractive the first time we met at their engagement party but I never acted on my feelings.
Sex with my aunt's new boyfriend has led to real complicationsCredit: Getty - Contributor
At a recent family get-together, we were laughing, joking and flirting.
He went outside to his car and I followed.
He said he was glad I did, as that’s what he wanted.
He needed petrol to drive some family home afterwards and asked if I wanted to go for a drive in his new car.
We drove out of town instead of to the garage. He parked up and kissed me, saying he’d wanted to all evening.
I am being blackmailed and don't know how to get out of the situationCredit: Getty - Contributor
We had sex on the back seat. It was amazing.
I didn’t let on he was my first lover and now we text all the time. He is romantic, funny, kind and sensitive.
I went to his house last weekend while my aunt was at her mum’s and we had sex again.
We talked about our future but decided to keep things as they are for the time being.
He doesn’t want to upset my aunt and nor do I.
When I got home, his son texted, asking me to call his mobile.
He said he “had something important to say to me”.
I called and he said: “You didn’t see me but I walked in on you and Dad this afternoon. I know what’s going on.”
I begged him not to tell anyone.
Then he said he understood what his dad saw in me, as he fancied me too.
He said he’d keep quiet if I had sex with him. What do I do?
It’s just a bit of fun with his dad, though I can’t give him up.
The last thing I want, though, is to ruin his marriage — and for my whole family to find out.
DEIDRE SAYS: Tell his son you really hope he will not spill the beans but you are not going to be emotionally blackmailed into having sex with him.
Tell your lover what his son has seen and is saying to you.
He has as much reason as you – if not more – to want his son to keep quiet about what he saw.
If nothing else, this has proved you are playing a risky game.
You say you do not want your aunt to get hurt, to ruin her marriage or for your family to find out yet that is exactly what will happen if things carry on as they are.
You say you cannot give him up but he is offering you nothing.
He does not want your aunt to know and he is unlikely to walk away from his marriage.
You will go on being the other woman, which will not be enough for you in the long-term – especially given the age difference.
Show you are mature enough to end it now.
Then move on and find someone your own age who you don’t have to keep secret.
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I had hot sex with my school crush and I’m worried my missus will find out
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DEAR DEIDRE: HAD the hottest sex with the most fancied girl from my class at school but I’m terrified my girlfriend will find out.
I’m a 23-year-old farmworker and my girlfriend works in a machinery-parts depot. She’s 21, very kind and loving.
I had amazing sex with a girl I fancied at schoolCredit: Alamy
I never had much luck with girls. In school I was the weedy guy and all the girls wanted the ripped blokes, obsessed with the gym. I kept myself to myself but now I’m on the farm my work is very physical so I’d give any of those lads a run for their money.
We were invited to my cousin’s 21st birthday party in our local pub. My girlfriend was invited but she decided she should see a friend who had just been dumped by her boyfriend.
I arrived at the pub early and downed a couple of pints. As the party got into full swing I was about to go home when a stunning girl came over and sat next to me.
She asked me if I recognised her. I said, “Sorry, I don’t,” but then she reminded me she had been in my form at school. She was the girl every boy fancied.
I was having a drink at the pub when she came over and spoke to meCredit: Alamy
It felt weird to be next to her with her smiling at me. She’d never given me a look before but clearly she remembered me. Suddenly it felt like pay-back time and I was out to impress her and the other guys from school who were around.
She finished her drink and I offered to walk her home. When we got back to her house, she invited me in and we had incredible sex in her bed. The next morning, I couldn’t get out of there quick enough. I felt so guilty about cheating on my girlfriend.
My girlfriend arrived home 20 minutes after me and I just wanted to hold her but I knew she’d spot my guilty conscience. Now the girl from school is texting, asking to see me. I don’t know what to say. I feel so torn.
DEIDRE SAYS: Assuming you love your girlfriend and want to stay with her, best live with your guilty conscience. Confessing would just end up causing misery all round. As long as nobody else is suspicious, keep your own counsel.
Say sorry to the girl you went home with, that you didn’t mean to mislead her but you’re not free to have an ongoing relationship with her.
Or has getting off with this glamorous girl made you reassess how committed you are to your girlfriend? If so, it’s unfair to cheat. Tell your girlfriend your relationship isn’t working for you and break with her before seeing the other girl again.
Be careful you’re not having your head turned though. Maybe you still smart from being overlooked at school and pay-back time was sweet with the girl everyone fancied, but remember what they say: Beauty is only skin deep.
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DEAR DEIDRE: HAD the hottest sex with the most fancied girl from my class at school but I’m terrified my girlfriend will find out.
I’m a 23-year-old farmworker and my girlfriend works in a machinery-parts depot. She’s 21, very kind and loving.
I had amazing sex with a girl I fancied at schoolCredit: Alamy
I never had much luck with girls. In school I was the weedy guy and all the girls wanted the ripped blokes, obsessed with the gym. I kept myself to myself but now I’m on the farm my work is very physical so I’d give any of those lads a run for their money.
We were invited to my cousin’s 21st birthday party in our local pub. My girlfriend was invited but she decided she should see a friend who had just been dumped by her boyfriend.
I arrived at the pub early and downed a couple of pints. As the party got into full swing I was about to go home when a stunning girl came over and sat next to me.
She asked me if I recognised her. I said, “Sorry, I don’t,” but then she reminded me she had been in my form at school. She was the girl every boy fancied.
I was having a drink at the pub when she came over and spoke to meCredit: Alamy
It felt weird to be next to her with her smiling at me. She’d never given me a look before but clearly she remembered me. Suddenly it felt like pay-back time and I was out to impress her and the other guys from school who were around.
She finished her drink and I offered to walk her home. When we got back to her house, she invited me in and we had incredible sex in her bed. The next morning, I couldn’t get out of there quick enough. I felt so guilty about cheating on my girlfriend.
My girlfriend arrived home 20 minutes after me and I just wanted to hold her but I knew she’d spot my guilty conscience. Now the girl from school is texting, asking to see me. I don’t know what to say. I feel so torn.
DEIDRE SAYS: Assuming you love your girlfriend and want to stay with her, best live with your guilty conscience. Confessing would just end up causing misery all round. As long as nobody else is suspicious, keep your own counsel.
Say sorry to the girl you went home with, that you didn’t mean to mislead her but you’re not free to have an ongoing relationship with her.
Or has getting off with this glamorous girl made you reassess how committed you are to your girlfriend? If so, it’s unfair to cheat. Tell your girlfriend your relationship isn’t working for you and break with her before seeing the other girl again.
Be careful you’re not having your head turned though. Maybe you still smart from being overlooked at school and pay-back time was sweet with the girl everyone fancied, but remember what they say: Beauty is only skin deep.
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