Sinkie Redditer charboh needs advice

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Advice for returning Singaporean​

I need advice!



Hello! I am Singaporean and live in London now and have been flirting with the idea of moving to Singapore after almost a decade of studying and working abroad. I'm in late twenties and a straight woman, and not rushing anything, but would definitely want to gradually explore dating in SG. I'll be relocating to SG in a few months for work.

To be fair, I've met a few people during my trips back (at least 2x a year) and have met very lovely guys. In fact for these cases I'm the problem cos I always had to ciao back! To their credit the dating scene in SG seems to be much better than in the west and I'm grateful that this is the case.

Just quite curious to understand what exactly SG guys want. I hear female friends in SG slam them a lot but comparing to guys in America and Europe, they are nowhere as bad.

Are they inclined for someone who fits the mould, or someone with unique experiences like myself? And what are their opinions on things like having a partner who solo travels for fun, goes to raves and needs alone time? Obviously happy to have company but many times I like having my own space, but seeing friends who are coupled up I feel that couples in SG tend to do most things together.

Thanks in advance for the input!