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I was filling up an immigration card recently when I came across the column: Occupation. I paused. I had been writing "journalist" or "writer" for 30 years. But I was no longer a full-time journalist, or even a part-time one. I was now a freelance writer. Most of my work week these days is spent doing a course in pastoral care. But putting down "student" or "pastoral care intern" didn't feel right either.
I took a deep breath, and penned: "Retired."
That was the first time I wrote that word. Before that, in the intervening months after I left full-time employment with this newspaper (where I remain an ad hoc contributor), I had described myself as a "semi-retired journalist" as though that "semi" allowed me to retain my identity as a journalist that had anchored me for so long.
In putting the word "Retired" down on paper, I made a small but significant shift towards accepting my new identity. I am post-career, moving into the retirement phase of my life.
https://www.magzter.com/stories/new...S-ACCEPTING-THAT-YOU-ARE-NOT-JUST-WHAT-YOU-DO