Reditter : I feel bad not letting my mom stay at my place

[Yuletide]

My mom has an overseas property so she can’t buy HDB for now. She doesn’t have enough cash to buy a private property. She previously stayed in the HDB under my sibling’s name but it has since been sold and my sibling is getting a new flat with their spouse.

My mom is currently staying at my place temporarily and she mentioned she would leave by mid December. I said ok and asked where she would stay after that, to which she said she doesn’t have any plans yet. I felt like she was waiting for me to suggest letting her continue staying at my place but I didn’t because my spouse is not really keen on that. Personally, I would also prefer not to live with her because honestly I do not enjoy living with her. She scrutinizes things, makes a lot of comments like what we should do and shouldn’t do and gives a lot of advices based on old wives tales. She likes to impose her own baseless theories on us and insist that it’s for our own good. She’s also very sensitive. Basically we can’t relax and “be ourselves” when she’s staying with us.

So question is.. is it weird/bad to let my mom rent a room outside even though I have a room that she could stay in? I feel really bad not wanting to let her stay but at the same time I need to respect my spouse (since this house is also under my spouse’s name) and living apart from my mom is also better for my own mental health.

 

[bobby]

Fucking hopeless hen pecked son…the mother should have eaten lots of raw pineapples during the pregnancy

 

[Scrooball (clone)]

Then why the mom don’t stay overseas or sell it to get a new house in Sg? lol

 

[A Singaporean]

What a dishonourable son.

 

[bigozt]

The Boomer mom insists on calling the shots. Just becoz survive Nip Occupation think she is greatest Gen. Hello, it is the US UK and Ruskis that crushed the Axis. Our Boomer Gen have no claim to that, some even suck Nip dick like Prata man.

Just kick her out of your house! Either she run back Aussie to suck her fat AMDK shriveled dick or roam SG streets collect cardboard for exercise.

 

[WangChuk]

My mom has an overseas property so she can’t buy HDB for now. She doesn’t have enough cash to buy a private property. She previously stayed in the HDB under my sibling’s name but it has since been sold and my sibling is getting a new flat with their spouse.

My mom is currently staying at my place temporarily and she mentioned she would leave by mid December. I said ok and asked where she would stay after that, to which she said she doesn’t have any plans yet. I felt like she was waiting for me to suggest letting her continue staying at my place but I didn’t because my spouse is not really keen on that. Personally, I would also prefer not to live with her because honestly I do not enjoy living with her. She scrutinizes things, makes a lot of comments like what we should do and shouldn’t do and gives a lot of advices based on old wives tales. She likes to impose her own baseless theories on us and insist that it’s for our own good. She’s also very sensitive. Basically we can’t relax and “be ourselves” when she’s staying with us.

So question is.. is it weird/bad to let my mom rent a room outside even though I have a room that she could stay in? I feel really bad not wanting to let her stay but at the same time I need to respect my spouse (since this house is also under my spouse’s name) and living apart from my mom is also better for my own mental health.

another charsiew dotter

 

[The Crow]

Fucking hopeless hen pecked son…the mother should have eaten lots of raw pineapples during the pregnancy

Or gave birth to a piece of charsiew meat instead ...

 

[syed putra]

Bangala worker hostel may have room. Vacancies.

 

[myfoot123]

When your childrens are all married, you are fucked. Better leave one or two child unmarried to look after you.

 

[syed putra]

When your childrens are all married, you are fucked. Better leave one or two child unmarried to look after you.

The Ones who end up lookingbafter the elderly normally the least successful. Better save and live in a hospice.

 

[myfoot123]

Then why the mom don’t stay overseas or sell it to get a new house in Sg? lol

She can stay in Community Care apartment. Her children can help her settle in.