Redditer: 36F.. dating after divorce in SG?

[metanoia]

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36F.. dating after divorce in SG?​

Turning 36 in a couple of months and currently going through a divorce. If all goes well, I should be officially single within this year

I haven’t been single or in the dating scene for ages. No kids, WFH, and I don’t really go out much, so meeting new people is quite difficult if I don’t get out of my comfort zone and try something new

I do work out nearly every day, but it’s mostly Pilates and home workouts. Going to the gym might be something I might consider…

I know dating apps are the obvious option and I might try them, but they feel quite time consuming. Matching, chatting, arranging dates etc. Not very time efficient and low ROI in my view haha

I was wondering if it’s weird or too bold to just approach guys at cafe or on the street if I feel interested. Never done that before and I afraid I might freak them out

Would love to hear thoughts or experiences from people who started dating again after divorce

Many thanks in advance!

 

[tobelightlight]

What is wrong with being single? Why need to date again? The most important question is why are you in a situation of divorce.

 

[laksaboy]

I know an angmoh lady, married for four decades, husband died a few years ago, she is almost 70 now, still wants to marry again.

Some single mothers out there just want an ATM for their kids, or their pets, or their 'lifestyle'.

 

[laksaboy]

Turning 36 in a couple of months and currently going through a divorce. If all goes well, I should be officially single within this year

By the way ladies, if you are divorced, you are a divorcee. You are not 'single' or 'single again'. You are not the same as those who have never married before. Single mothers are more 'single' than you.

You cannot shake this off on a whim. And you cannot downplay it through delulu semantic word games.

Also, 'currently going through a divorce' usually means you are separated. That is a different category from those whose divorce has been finalized.

 

[tobelightlight]

Some single mothers out there just want an ATM for their kids, or their pets, or their 'lifestyle'.

The female dependency is such a total turn off. I stay away from such dependency drama, peace and quiet is very healing and healthy.

 

[batman1]

I knew one divorced lady claim she is single as her marriage is declared null and void.She should be considered a divorcee.

 

[syed putra]

What is wrong with being single? Why need to date again? The most important question is why are you in a situation of divorce.

Guy didnt bonk her properly hence no kids. What she need is a stud. But occasionally. Not to live with

 

[VanDick]

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36F.. dating after divorce in SG?​

Turning 36 in a couple of months and currently going through a divorce. If all goes well, I should be officially single within this year

I haven’t been single or in the dating scene for ages. No kids, WFH, and I don’t really go out much, so meeting new people is quite difficult if I don’t get out of my comfort zone and try something new

I do work out nearly every day, but it’s mostly Pilates and home workouts. Going to the gym might be something I might consider…

I know dating apps are the obvious option and I might try them, but they feel quite time consuming. Matching, chatting, arranging dates etc. Not very time efficient and low ROI in my view haha

I was wondering if it’s weird or too bold to just approach guys at cafe or on the street if I feel interested. Never done that before and I afraid I might freak them out

Would love to hear thoughts or experiences from people who started dating again after divorce

Many thanks in advance!

Very simple. Just tell her to come into this forum and advertise herself. Plenty of horny Samsters lying in wait.

 

[syed putra]

Very simple. Just tell her to come into this forum and advertise herself. Plenty of horny Samsters lying in wait.

These are overly matured ones. She needs a stud to reignite the passion.

 

[tobelightlight]

These are overly matured ones. She needs a stud to reignite the passion.

Just say flaccids.

 

[laksaboy]

I knew one divorced lady claim she is single as her marriage is declared null and void.She should be considered a divorcee.

Did she also claim to be a virgin, because the ex-husband was impotent or she has an rock-hard unbreakable hymen?

 

[laksaboy]

These are overly matured ones. She needs a stud to reignite the passion.

Too bad the Turf Club is closed, otherwise she can sneak into a stable and do it with a horse. Perfect for size queens.

 

[laksaboy]

Guy didnt bonk her properly hence no kids. What she need is a stud. But occasionally. Not to live with

Sometimes it's the woman's fault. She's already damaged.

 

[eatshitndie]

she can’t wait and go thru’ the rigmarole. she wants a wham bam thank you ma’am.

 

[Vlad Tepes]

What is wrong with being single? Why need to date again? The most important question is why are you in a situation of divorce.

Free money to leech. Isn't it obvious?

 

[congo9]

36 f CUP ?

 

[A Singaporean]

She must be very careful not to date CAQs who now call themselves women free men.

 

[glockman]

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36F.. dating after divorce in SG?​

Turning 36 in a couple of months and currently going through a divorce. If all goes well, I should be officially single within this year

I haven’t been single or in the dating scene for ages. No kids, WFH, and I don’t really go out much, so meeting new people is quite difficult if I don’t get out of my comfort zone and try something new

I do work out nearly every day, but it’s mostly Pilates and home workouts. Going to the gym might be something I might consider…

I know dating apps are the obvious option and I might try them, but they feel quite time consuming. Matching, chatting, arranging dates etc. Not very time efficient and low ROI in my view haha

I was wondering if it’s weird or too bold to just approach guys at cafe or on the street if I feel interested. Never done that before and I afraid I might freak them out

Would love to hear thoughts or experiences from people who started dating again after divorce

Many thanks in advance!

I will reply to her in that reddit thread. I am usually at my neighbourhood 24 hr coffee shop, so she can meet me there.

 

[Scrooball (clone)]

Men can smell desperation from a mile away. lol a gal approaching a guy at a cafe? What’s next? Asking for WhatsApp number at a funeral?

 

[Scrooball (clone)]

Red flag on this one. No mention of reason for divorce. Probably means that she was the issue.