The problem lies in their men.
When they are young, they just get a woman pregnant before 21.
Most never study and lazy at work, end up with their wives take care of children and went out to work.
They stay at home, smoke, drink, play games, if they got a bit of money go betting or gambling and beat wives.
In the end, their wives leave them, many can't even divorce for many years.
For the richer men, they inherit family's wealth and cocky, and still lazy.
Not just they have mistresses, they enjoy buying drugs for women so that they can do demeaning things to them.