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Ming Pao, Ming Pao - December 9, 2011 5:17 AM Friday
[Ming
Pao] Beijing two 10-year-old girl recently produced a "bucket mother
Filmography", which is illustrated lists 20 kinds of tactics to deal
with when his mother scolded, such as when the mother export, the child
may cry or pretend to be installed on toilets and so on. Some experts said the mothers of the children not to be too nagging, to encourage them more.
In
the "fight mother Filmography" profile, the two girls said it was one
designed for 6 to 12 years old, children scolded by their parents every
day write a book. One author's father "tree village" will be comic remake of the content and published online. "Fighting
mother Filmography" The first one: "Your mother yells at you, you can:
look elsewhere, like other things. No matter, do not listen. Nature:
Hard Note: not often." Section three
strategies: "your mother yells at you hard, you can: install cry
(make-point effort Oh!) nature: Soft Note: Be sure to Zhuangde Xiang
(you can always use)."
Be more excited to get creative with the students
Other
"clever" also includes being criticized, you can "lie on the mother who
cried," "back to his room," "I can say on the toilet? And then hiding
in the toilet," "said the next will be good (I
thought the first fool, then think about the future) "; and when the
mother Ma Wan, you can" shouted away from home, ran to the stairs to get
something, and cried, running down (do not run away) "; if the mother Ma Wan, and after the gas has disappeared," you can write a note, from the door into the go to mother. " Each moves all with a lively and witty comic note, such as beads, praised by users is "God made."
Blog "village tree," said, "fighting mother Filmography" is his fourth grade daughter and classmates created. He
said his daughter has come up with "bucket mother Filmography" to him,
"I really think after reading it real, interesting, this is a true
portrayal of the current family education, and decided on the
micro-blog, to all the parents to see to see. " "Village
tree," said he hoped that through this book to give parents a warning,
do not always scolded children, give them freedom, let the children
play.
Expert: less nagging to encourage
"Fighting
mother Filmography" the Internet, the "tree village" to demonize his
wife blame him, I feel wronged, "I do not often criticize the child's
mother." While
she explained to reporters, while a moderate tone, asked her: "Do you
think my mother is always yells at you, you said with the aunt!" Wanted
to please his daughter for his "clarification", but her face did not
give her mother, unwilling to respondents .
Why
talk about Nver create "bucket Ma Daquan," said the Mama pickup that
test scores are not ideal times Nver, after school and classmates home
to do homework. Reading
scores, said she could not help her sentence: "Compared with the XX
students, took this paper home, you do not feel embarrassed it?" A
comparison with the students take their own mother, daughter, a little angry, the two girls decided to "draw the book to the child being scolded," began writing "fighting mother Daquan." Shanghai
Academy of Educational Sciences Research and Education Family Guidance
Center Yuqin Fang said the teacher, the children from school to high
school, the face of her mother's accusations and complaints, easy to
accumulate in the heart of some negative emotions, parents should also
be in the reflection. "In
the family education, the role of mother is often too nagging, overly
concerned about the child's academic and life ... my mother to complain
and less nagging, more patience and encouragement."
(Evening News)
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女童撰《鬥媽大全》 列應對捱罵招數
<cite class="byline vcard">明報 – <abbr title="2011-12-08T21:17:10Z">2011年12月9日星期五上午5:17</abbr></cite>【明報專訊】北京兩名10歲女孩最近製作了一本《鬥媽大全》，當中圖文並茂列出20多種被母親責罵時的應對招數，如當媽媽出口時，子女可以裝哭或假裝要上廁所等。有專家稱，母親們對孩子不要過於嘮叨，要多些鼓勵他們。
在
《鬥媽大全》簡介中，這兩名女孩稱這是一本專為6至12歲、天天被家長罵的小孩編寫的書。其中一名作者的爸爸「村頭樹」將內容和漫畫翻拍刊登網上。《鬥媽
大全》第一招：「你的老媽罵你的時候，你可以：看着其他的地方，想別的事情。不管，不聽。性質：硬。註：不能經常用。 」
第三招：「你老媽使勁罵你的時候，你可以：裝哭（使點勁兒哦！）性質：軟。註：一定要裝得像（可以經常使用）。」
被拿與同學比較 激發創作
其
他「高招」還包括被罵時，可「趴在媽身上哭」、「跑回自己的房間」、「說我能上廁所嗎？然後躲在廁所內」、「說下次一定會好的（心想先騙過這次，以後再想
辦法）」；又當被媽罵完時，可「喊着離家出走，拿一些東西跑到樓梯口，哭着跑下去（千萬別跑得遠）」；若媽媽罵完後氣還未消，「你可寫張字條，從門縫放入
去給母親」。每個招式都搭配生動的漫畫和妙語如珠的附註，獲網民大讚是「神作」。
博客「村頭樹」稱，《鬥媽大全》是他4年級女兒和同學一起
創作的。他說，近日女兒拿出《鬥媽大全》給他看，「我看完後的確覺得很真實、有趣。這也是當前家庭教育的真實寫照，於是決定放在微博上，給所有的家長看
看」。「村頭樹」說，希望透過這書，讓家長引以為戒，不要老是罵孩子，給他們自由，讓孩子自己發揮。
專家：要多鼓勵少嘮叨
《鬥媽大全》上網後，「村頭樹」的妻子責怪他醜化自己，覺得委屈，「我不是常罵孩子的媽媽」。她一邊向記者解釋，一邊語氣溫和地問女兒：「你覺得媽媽是否經常罵你，你跟阿姨說！」本想請女兒為自己「澄清」，但女兒沒給媽媽面子，不願受訪。
談
及女兒為何要創作
《鬥媽大全》，這位媽媽代答說，有次女兒考試成績不理想，放學後和同學一起回家做功課。看完分數，她忍不住說了女兒一句：「跟XX同學相比，拿着這張試卷
回家，你難道不會覺得不好意思嗎？」一聽老媽拿自己跟同學比較，女兒有點生氣，兩個小女生於是決定「給捱罵的孩子畫本書」，開始創作《鬥媽大全》。上海市
教育科學研究院家庭教育研究與指導中心郁琴芳老師稱，孩子從入學到高年級，面對媽媽的指摘和抱怨，容易在內心積累一些負面情緒，家長也應從中反思。「在家
庭教育中，媽媽扮演的角色常常過於嘮叨，過於關注孩子的學業和生活……媽媽要少點抱怨和嘮叨，多點耐心和鼓勵。」
（新聞晚報）
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