Is everything in life preordained?

[edmwrefugee]

What we think as choices and options, for example, who we meet, who we love, who we marry, what we do, our career, our life journey and its end are preordained.

The choice or options that we have are in fact illusions.

For example, when one is confronted by a choice or option to date two men, one a doctor and another a lawyer, she decides who is the best of the two she loves more, and more willing to spend her onward life journey.

So she makes a choice choosing one between the two equally good men.

She thinks that she made a choice, but in reality, the "choice" she makes is actually predetermined or preordained. She doesn't know what exactly the future will entail whether its Man A or Man B.

What are your thoughts?

 

[edmwrefugee]

A friend of mine got married. She was happy that she finally can move on from single hood to family life. She was happy when she was pregnant. Now, a few years later, her son is a special needs child. A whole new uncertain future is ahead. Was it predetermined that she will have a special needs child?

 

[syed putra]

A friend of mine got married. She was happy that she finally can move on from single hood to family life. She was happy when she was pregnant. Now, a few years later, her son is a special needs child. A whole new uncertain future is ahead. Was it predetermined that she will have a special needs child?

People are getting married later in life and its causing all these unnecessary miseries. If you want babies, get it early. At a young age. After years of boozing and countless sex partners, the pussy is contaminated and in need of refurbishment.

 

[UltimaOnline]

A friend of mine got married. She was happy that she finally can move on from single hood to family life. She was happy when she was pregnant. Now, a few years later, her son is a special needs child. A whole new uncertain future is ahead. Was it predetermined that she will have a special needs child?

Yes. In the sense that your friend would definitely have a strong karmic connection to the soul of her child, and that both of them need (ie. have the opportunity to grow from) the experience of such a relationship, in which she goes through the experience of being the mother of such a special needs child, and the child too needs the experience of being born into a special needs body and lifetime. If you (and/or your friend) is interested, PM me for a lobang on how your friend can find out more about her relationship with her child in their past lives together and what is hoped for them in this lifetime with this experience and relationship.

 

[mojito]

Typical sinkies. Yes no questions, they are very boring! What is more interesting is who, or what preordains everything in life? In Singapore. At school. At work. Much more interesting.

 

[blackmondy]

Our gender is already preordained when our parents fucked......So yes, our life is preordained from conception.

 

[po2wq]

... So she makes a choice choosing one between the two equally good men.

She thinks that she made a choice, but in reality, the "choice" she makes is actually predetermined or preordained. She doesn't know what exactly the future will entail whether its Man A or Man B.

What are your thoughts?

if ur choice turns out wel, craim all credits n blast ur trumpet ... iz all due 2 ur sexceptional intelligens, awesome 4site n gr8 i lite ...

if not, put ze brame on anyting n evryting under ze sun (including itself n all tings inside it) sexcept urself ...

 

[eatshitndie]

you’re subconciously “attracted” to your past life soulmates in your present life. they appear in your life because they are reciprocally “attracted” to you. if nobody is interested in you from ages 1 to 69, it may mean you’re either reaching sainthood or have shaken off all earthly desires and karmic debt. when your friend begets a special needs child it’s part of her karmic journey and earthly lessons whereby one of her soulmates chooses to be her special needs child. it’s not easy to accept that difficult assignment due to burden on the mom, the child’s beloved soulmate. when all things are considered it is actually more difficult for the mother to go thru (multi) life lessons in 669 lives.

 

[knowwhatyouwantinlife]

Please watch mr nobody one of the best movie on this subject:

 

[hollowman]

I think it depends. We cannot say everything is fated as certain things you need to try it then you can know the fated results. And certain things eg this person died young after a motorbike accident. Some people will say it's fated. But he wouldn't have died if he didn't ride a bike. Or can you say even he didn't die from the bike accident, he was also fated to die young by other ways. Is there such a thing ?

 

[hollowman]

I think it depends. We cannot say everything is fated as certain things you need to try it then you can know the fated results. And certain things eg this person died young after a motorbike accident. Some people will say it's fated. But he wouldn't have died if he didn't ride a bike. Or can you say even he didn't die from the bike accident, he was also fated to die young by other ways. Is there such a thing ?

As such I think the result of a destiny is a complex formula like

Fate = sin(effort) cos (probability) / integration (luck)