I have never been able to climax during sex. Is my masturbation style to blame?

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I have never been able to climax during sex. Is my masturbation style to blame?​

Pamela Stephenson Connolly
Tue, 30 May 2023 at 6:27 pm SGT·2-min read

I am an 18-year-old man and recently lost my virginity. I have been sexually active with the same girl since. I have never been able to ejaculate during sex, even though it has been great for both of us. I decided to research the issue and now believe it has something to do with my masturbation style, which is typically pretty fast, and unrealistic to replicate during sex. Is there was any way for me to change this, to make the sex more enjoyable for me?

You are right in thinking that a person’s masturbation style can affect their ability to engage successfully in partner sex. I am assuming you mean that you believe you would need to thrust very rapidly to ejaculate? Fortunately, a person’s sexual response is something that can be changed and developed. You must be patient. First, practise slowing down during masturbation. When you are with your girlfriend, try not to be anxious about finishing. Instead, focus on the pleasure you can both experience. Instead of being afraid of how you are “performing” try to enjoy the present moment, and focus on giving her pleasure. Ask her what she enjoys and practise those sexual skills. You are at the very beginning of your shared sexual journey: allow yourself to take the time you need to become a satisfied and satisfying lover.

• Pamela Stephenson Connolly is a US-based psychotherapist who specialises in treating sexual disorders.

https://sg.news.yahoo.com/never-able-climax-during-sex-102743025.html

 

[50000]

he is fucking the wrong type of hole and he doesnt know it yet

 

[syed putra]

Masturbate too much until nothing left for the girl. But that is ok if the girl comes.

 

[metalrover]

His kkj too used to his left and right hands, and pew too fast. When piak real pussy, within 1 min game over.

Too much pcc, cut down or avoid pcc b4 siogan

 

[bushtucker]

Maybe pussy loose, he tak shiok, need a tighter grip to cum. He can always ask gf to HJ him until he cums.

 

[glockman]

His inability to ejaculate during sex is the least of his problems. He should be more concerned with losing his sight.

 

[tanwahtiu]

Pui kia @blackmondy fuck Satan @Devil Within , ask how they cum together...

 

[Devil Within]

Pui kia @blackmondy fuck Satan @Devil Within , ask how they cum together...

LOL!... You can ask your mother, sisters, and daughter how I cum inside them. LOL!... No wonder your mother, sisters, and daughters beg me to fuck them deep deep because they are so ashamed to have a traitor like you in the family LOL!...

 

[blackmondy]

Pui kia @blackmondy fuck Satan @Devil Within , ask how they cum together...

Limpeh can fuck with many pattern, unlike a tiong dog who can only get doggied by his commie master.

 

[tanwahtiu]

Linpeh can fuck with many pattern, unlike a tiong dog who can only get doggied by his commie master.

@winners is your fucking partner too... @blackmondy

 

[k1976]

I have never been able to climax during sex. Is my masturbation style to blame?​

Pamela Stephenson Connolly
Tue, 30 May 2023 at 6:27 pm SGT·2-min read

I am an 18-year-old man and recently lost my virginity. I have been sexually active with the same girl since. I have never been able to ejaculate during sex, even though it has been great for both of us. I decided to research the issue and now believe it has something to do with my masturbation style, which is typically pretty fast, and unrealistic to replicate during sex. Is there was any way for me to change this, to make the sex more enjoyable for me?

You are right in thinking that a person’s masturbation style can affect their ability to engage successfully in partner sex. I am assuming you mean that you believe you would need to thrust very rapidly to ejaculate? Fortunately, a person’s sexual response is something that can be changed and developed. You must be patient. First, practise slowing down during masturbation. When you are with your girlfriend, try not to be anxious about finishing. Instead, focus on the pleasure you can both experience. Instead of being afraid of how you are “performing” try to enjoy the present moment, and focus on giving her pleasure. Ask her what she enjoys and practise those sexual skills. You are at the very beginning of your shared sexual journey: allow yourself to take the time you need to become a satisfied and satisfying lover.

• Pamela Stephenson Connolly is a US-based psychotherapist who specialises in treating sexual disorders.

https://sg.news.yahoo.com/never-able-climax-during-sex-102743025.html

Weak kidney... 肾虚

 

[tanwahtiu]

LOL!... You can ask your mother, sisters, and daughter how I cum inside them. LOL!... No wonder your mother, sisters, and daughters beg me to fuck them deep deep because they are so ashamed to have a traitor like you in the family LOL!...

Eh... Satan... u are dead... go fuck your dead grandma... @Devil Within

 

[Devil Within]

Eh... Satan... u are dead... go fuck your dead grandma... @Devil Within

LOL!.... I met your grandma and she also beg me to fuck her deep deep. LOL!... I guess she is also ashamed to have a CCP commiecunt like you in the family. LOL!....

 

[duluxe]

you should circumcise, sure reach climax with 4x virgins.

 

[eatshitndie]

must be a mental block from habitual masturbation with a specific way of cumming. cure may be in the works if he ties his neck in a noose.