GCP Redditer: Would you marry?

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Would you marry?​

I need advice!

My boyfriend is a provider man however with close relationship with his parents. He’s the only son inheriting family business so he’s tied up with them all the time.

Recently he has proposed to settle down with me and as much as I love him, I am unsure how accommodating I can be with him and his family. His parents have been putting me off at arms length and I don’t try to cross the boundaries but I am affected by it as I never feel like I’m part of the family.

He can provide for me financially ie. he bought me a car, luxury bags every year and business class and 5* hotels for holidays. I don’t have to worry about anything from housing to daily expenses. But all these comes at a price to sacrifice our time for him to focus on his business and family.

Will you accept the proposal if you’re in my shoes?

 

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[jurongkechil]

Got puck puck puck sound?

 

[Dongyi]

99% The man sucks in the looks department, which is why it's important for her to mention everything else from house, car to luxury bags.

If you're handsome, the confidence comes naturally. No need to keep harping on status symbols.

If the man is above average in the looks department, she will not be hesitating and asking boliao questions.

解铃还需系铃人啊！​

 

[Worm]

can tell she will sleep around after married

 

[Baimi]

短剧经常有的故事
霸道总裁
婆媳不合
还有一位拜金女是她的对手

 

[batman1]

There is no perfect marriage in real life.555

 

[Dongyi]

Handsome 就是上天给你的名牌, other 名牌都是自己争取的。The difference is the first one no need 别人的 acknowledgment, the second one must.

Women always look out for the first one, together liao then complain you don't have the second one. Li Nanxing is an example.

If a man lacks the first one, he will resort to the second one. Women also not GCB, they know you know you are not handsome and need their validation. So they spend your money and in return you get to feel like 秦汉 for 5 minutes. The problem is ugly men once they get addicted to that 秦汉 feeling, they will keep promoting their status symbols to get more 秦汉 feeling. After a few successes adopting this methodology, they'll gain confidence because they really believe they're handsome liao. And then they begin to think they are good enough for Korean and Thai chiobus also​

 

[no_faith]

She will says she is not a gold digger