Don't knock masturbation; you can have sex with anyone you like - Woody Allen

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For most men, their earliest sexual experiences are with masturbation, done secretly and quickly for fear of being found out. It is often believed that such early experience actually condition some men’s sexual response to a pattern of rapid ejaculation. In reality, masturbation is one of the best ways for men to learn about their bodies and develop confidence about their ejaculatory control in a pressure-free environment. Using lubricant, slowing down on the stroking action when you masturbate and letting yourself enjoy the sensations more are all part of the learning process. So stroke away and take your time.

- http://www.publichouse.sg/categories/community/item/171-masturbation-is-self-love