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This guy in the sister forum actually observed these over the years!
It is my belief that there is a correlation between a woman’s sexual satisfaction and her mood/temperament. It might have something to do with hormones in her body.
Over many years, I have conducted my own unscientific experiment with 8 women and have found the results stated below. I have repeated different period lengths with different women and the result is fairly consistent. However, due to the very tiny sample size, this may not be conclusive.
Any bros here care to / dare to try this same experiment, please give it a go and let me have your observation so that the overall result can be more accurate.
Obviously, there will be many other distractions and factors that will alter the result so we have to repeat it a few times to ascertain that our result is accurate. The whole process can take up to 3-4 months.
Anyway, here are the basis for the experiment.
I am giving a rough number rating from 1 to 9 to better separate the differences.
1 = Dead fish, no feeling at all. Better just go out and have a beer by myself.
3 = Like just after a big argument. A bit pissed, a bit regret and a bit of can’ t be bothered.
5 = Quite neutral, sometimes cold and sometimes hot.
7 = Like the better early dates...some awkwardness but generally lovey dovey.
9 = Total GFE, as good as during honeymoon (assumed honeymoon bliss type)
Tracking...the day after sex is tracked as sex every day; second day tracked as sex every other day, the third day after sex tracked as sex every 3 days and so on...
Sex every day – a woman is generally happier –
Screw ups on minor things – I can forget or screw up minor things (a few times), she will not get upset with me...can even tease me and joke with me about my silliness. (9)
Reaction to my mood – Should I snap at her, she will console/sayang me and try to find out why I am so upset. (9)
Touchy feely – She will also be more touchy feely and come find me to hug me or touch me a lot more during the day. (9)
Silly requests – I can ask her for silly things, like make me a snack (noodles or sandwich) just before dinner and she will do it. (9)
Autoroam – When we cuddle to watch TV, she will allow me to play with almost every part of her body...her hair, her ear, her belly, her thighs, her feet etc...I can stroke them casually without negative reaction from her. (9)
Playfulness and more sex - she will be more playful in her mood and if I touch sensitive areas, she will assume (pull me to the bedroom or remove my clothes etc) sex is going to happen. Almost no rejection to sexual advances. Willing to try new things sexually. (9)
Sex every other day – a woman is still happy –
Screw ups on minor things – if I screw up more than 2-3 times, her tone and body language will start to show irritation, but usually without comments from her yet. (8)
Reaction to my mood – Should I snap at her, she will become unhappy but may try to find out why I am so upset. (7)
Touchy feely – I get one or two hugs or a touch/rub on my back a few times. (8)
Silly requests – She may frown when I ask but she will do it even though she seems less happy to do it. (7)
Autoroam – This one is uncertain. I have had from no reaction up to she taking my hand and placing it somewhere else on her body...like if I play with her ears, she may take my hand and put it on her shoulder. (8)
Playfulness and more sex - Still a bit playful. Sexual advances are met with some enthusiasm, though not as quick. Somewhat willing to try new things. (7)
Sex every 3 days – a woman starts to get edgy –
Screw ups on minor things – my minor screw ups are met with expressional or tonal disapproval...like a click of the tongue, roll her eyes etc. But no harsh comments. ..just simple aiya or haiz...(6)
Reaction to my mood – Should I snap at her, she will become upset and maybe argue back without finding out why I am so upset in the first place. (5)
Touchy feely – I may get a hug or touch, but unless I go near her to make it easy for her, she may not do it. (5)
Silly requests – If I ask for silly things, she will debate with me why what I am asking for is silly, but will do it if I pleaded with her. (5)
Autoroam – Sometimes, she will allow it but often she will take my hand and hold it...I am guessing to prevent me from roaming too far or too much. (6)
Playfulness and more sex – Not as playful. May show reluctance on my sexual advances. Simple persistence from me will get me sex though. Not really willing to try new things. (6)
Sex every 5 days – a woman starts to act a bit moody , brood a bit and silent treatment a bit...
Screw ups on minor things – She will point out my screw ups and huff about it, but not overly angry. .Almost like she cannot believe I screwed up. (4)
Reaction to my mood – Should I snap at her, she will become angry, sulk and walk away. (4)
Touchy feely – No auto hug. I can go hug her and she will accept by hugging me back with little warmth. (5)
Silly requests – Will take almost a minor argument to get what I ask. Usually the answer is still no. (3)
Autoroam – Will remove my hand by holding it or just taking it away. Only safe autoroam is around her body to hug her. (4)
Playfulness and more sex - Not very receptive to being playful. Almost need to persuade her to have sex. Still can get if I plan it properly or show her that there is a plan to have sex. Need lead in foreplay like light to heavy kissing etc. Screw trying new things, let's get this over with. (4)
Sex once a week – A woman starts to revert to be normal again...but you can see the undercurrent of unsettledness or unhappiness. Can more often seem to be deep in thought or moody.
Screw ups on minor things – She will get upset and tell me off for even the simplest screw up when she witnesses it. (3)
Reaction to my mood – Should I snap at her, she will get angry and bring up history to start an argument. (2)
Touchy feely – No chance of auto. Need to go hug her and still get the feeling that she prefers I just go away. (4)
Silly requests – Don’t waste time. She will tell me off for asking and walks away. (3)
Autoroam – Sometimes she takes hold my hand and sometimes she place my hand around her waist but no tickling allowed or she will move my hand. (3)
Playfulness and more sex – Not playful at all. Even foreplay-ish kissing are being resisted with an expression of – what are you doing? I have to actually say can we have sex to get sex. New things will be rejected unless a lot of prep done before hand - like watching porn or discussion prior. (3)
Anything more than 8 days without sex...a woman will seem normal, BUT...
Screw ups on minor things – She will get angry or will go the ‘you are an idiot and I am ignoring you’ method. (1)
Reaction to my mood – Should I snap at her, she will get angry and walk away with a ‘fuck you jack’ reaction...and payback comes later when she finds something to yell at me for... (1)
Touchy feely – Once in a while, she will do this but I always get the feeling she is not doing it because she wants to...happens more when other people like friends are around. (3)
Silly requests – She will just ignore. (2)
Autoroam – I have had women move away when I start. We watched the movie like it was our first date, both sitting straight up and slightly apart. She just lets me hold her hand (no rubbing or playing with her hand, just hold.) (2)
Playfulness and more sex - Hmmm...not playful and almost need to beg and reason with her on why it is a good idea to have sex. She will usually go to bed before me and pretend to be asleep before I arrive. Must schedule it in if hope to have sex and suggesting new things may lead to cancellation of the scheduled sex altogether, don't go there. (2)
Assumptions:
1) Your sexual relationship is not in the first 6 months...during the early days, women are usually more sexual and that will change the results.
2) You know your woman well enough to weed out external factors....like if she is pissed at work and then takes it out on you cannot be added to the result.
3) Sex means actual intercourse with the woman getting at least one orgasm. (somehow, for women, orgasms without the penis inside her is not as satisfying...I may be wrong but this is what I got from my discussions with women...the intimacy of you being with her helps a lot, but still, not sure how it will affect the result if orgasm without your penis inside her. I have tried making her come with my mouth then insert straight after...that seems to work too.)
4) Frequency above can be +/- 1 days difference....but then must be spaced out again after the last sex.
5) You have to actually take notes. Some of the actions will cancel each other out and you can only know for sure is you have a record of it...feelings can be affected by one major incident and your personal feel about this may not be accurate any more.
6) Last but not least....obviously your woman cannot know you are observing her behaviour...that will null all your results.
My personal conclusion:
The more sex your woman has, the more she will want it...it is like yesterday’s good sex is foreplay for today.
Bros...please pass to me your observations...or if not...use my results to improve your own sex life and your woman’s overall mood and well being. Sex is good for the man and helps a woman in her general happiness as well.
Additional note: I find that if I give my woman more than 3 orgasms in one session...the effect will last a day or two longer. Plus, she will be more manja and willing to please the next day (not just sexually...I’m talking about peel prawns for me willingly...).
After getting the results...have sex everyday is the way to go!
Thanks for reading...
