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不结婚就枪毙？印度的这个地方日均九起“绑架新郎案”
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04-13 12:14
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央视网消息：被人绑架、拿枪指着，去和一个素昧平生的女孩结婚，这样看似电影里才会出现的情景却在印度比哈尔邦屡屡上演。今年17岁的青年罗尚就是其中一名受害者。
罗尚：“他们绑架我、打我、强迫我去结婚，十个人拿枪威胁我，我能怎么办？”
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罗尚
尽管被迫举行婚礼，罗尚还是勇敢地站了出来，向警方报案。因为他想上学、好好生活，如果接受了那场婚礼，他的一生就毁了。
现年29岁的男子帕尔文也是一名被绑来的新郎。2012年，他被迫与妻子结婚。但与罗尚不同，帕尔文最终向所谓的“命运”低头。如今，他已经是两个孩子的父亲。
帕尔文
被绑来的丈夫帕尔文是受害者，但他的妻子就快乐吗？帕尔文的妻子马哈拉尼表示，朋友劝我忘记这些，开心生活，毕竟这样的事情经常发生。
正如马哈拉尼所说，在相对贫穷的印度比哈尔邦，像这样的“绑架新郎案”不在少数，而且数量连年增长。有数据显示，2017年，有3405名年轻男子被绑架结婚。2016年，3070名男子成为这一陋习的受害者。在2015年和2014年，相应的受害者数量分别为3000名和2526名。警方统计数据显示，在比哈尔邦，平均每天有9起年轻男子遭遇强迫成婚的案件发生。
印度新娘（图片来源网络）
为什么会发生这样的事情呢？原来，根据印度传统习俗，新娘必须向新郎家提供珠宝等物品作为嫁妆。一个女性年龄越大，家庭为了把她嫁出去需要提供的嫁妆金额越高，而一直嫁不出去的女性则被视为整个家族的耻辱。这样的认知导致女方家庭往往会不计一切代价，尽快把女儿嫁出去。但对于印度很多贫困家庭而言，由于负担不起高额嫁妆，便只好出此下策，“绑”个新郎回家。
有印度社会学专家表示，这种“绑架式婚姻”，对男女双方来说，都是伤害。
Don't get married and shoot it? This place in India averages nine "abductions of the bridegroom"

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CCTV News: He was abducted and pointed at guns to marry a girl who was never married. It seemed that the scene that appeared in the movie was repeated in Bihar, India. The 17-year-old youth, Luo Shang, is one of the victims.
Luo Shang: "They kidnapped me, beat me, forced me to get married, and ten people threatened me with a gun. What can I do?"

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Luo Shang
Despite being forced to hold a wedding ceremony, Luo Shang bravely stood up and reported to the police. Because he wanted to go to school and live a good life, if he accepted the wedding, his life would be destroyed.
Pavel, a 29-year-old man, is also a bridegroom. In 2012, he was forced to marry his wife. However, unlike Luo Shang, Palvin eventually bowed to the so-called "fate." Today, he is already the father of two children.

Palvin
Her husband, Palvin, is the victim, but is his wife happy? Palvin's wife, Maharani, said that friends advised me to forget this and live a happy life. After all, such things often happen.
As Maharani said, in the relatively poor state of Bihar, India, there have been many cases of "abductions of the bridegroom" like this, and the number has increased year after year. According to statistics, 3,405 young men were kidnapped and married in 2017. In 2016, 3,070 men became victims of this bad habit. In 2015 and 2014, the corresponding number of victims was 3,000 and 2,526, respectively. Statistics from the police show that in Bihar, an average of 9 young men are subjected to forced marriage every day.

Indian Bride (Image Source Network)
Why does this happen? It turned out that according to the Indian tradition, the bride must provide jewelry and other items to the groom's house as a dowry. The older a woman is, the higher the amount of dowry that families need to provide in order to marry her, and women who have been unable to get married are considered shame of the entire family. Such cognition leads to the fact that the family of the woman will often marry her daughter as soon as possible at all costs. However, for many impoverished families in India, because they cannot afford a high rate of dowry, they have no choice but to take this opportunity to “tie” the bridegroom home.
Some Indian sociology experts said that this “kidnapping marriage” is an injury to both men and women.
不结婚就枪毙？印度的这个地方日均九起“绑架新郎案”
央视网
04-13 12:14
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央视网消息：被人绑架、拿枪指着，去和一个素昧平生的女孩结婚，这样看似电影里才会出现的情景却在印度比哈尔邦屡屡上演。今年17岁的青年罗尚就是其中一名受害者。
罗尚：“他们绑架我、打我、强迫我去结婚，十个人拿枪威胁我，我能怎么办？”
恭喜您获得了1次抽奖机会！
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罗尚
尽管被迫举行婚礼，罗尚还是勇敢地站了出来，向警方报案。因为他想上学、好好生活，如果接受了那场婚礼，他的一生就毁了。
现年29岁的男子帕尔文也是一名被绑来的新郎。2012年，他被迫与妻子结婚。但与罗尚不同，帕尔文最终向所谓的“命运”低头。如今，他已经是两个孩子的父亲。
帕尔文
被绑来的丈夫帕尔文是受害者，但他的妻子就快乐吗？帕尔文的妻子马哈拉尼表示，朋友劝我忘记这些，开心生活，毕竟这样的事情经常发生。
正如马哈拉尼所说，在相对贫穷的印度比哈尔邦，像这样的“绑架新郎案”不在少数，而且数量连年增长。有数据显示，2017年，有3405名年轻男子被绑架结婚。2016年，3070名男子成为这一陋习的受害者。在2015年和2014年，相应的受害者数量分别为3000名和2526名。警方统计数据显示，在比哈尔邦，平均每天有9起年轻男子遭遇强迫成婚的案件发生。
印度新娘（图片来源网络）
为什么会发生这样的事情呢？原来，根据印度传统习俗，新娘必须向新郎家提供珠宝等物品作为嫁妆。一个女性年龄越大，家庭为了把她嫁出去需要提供的嫁妆金额越高，而一直嫁不出去的女性则被视为整个家族的耻辱。这样的认知导致女方家庭往往会不计一切代价，尽快把女儿嫁出去。但对于印度很多贫困家庭而言，由于负担不起高额嫁妆，便只好出此下策，“绑”个新郎回家。
有印度社会学专家表示，这种“绑架式婚姻”，对男女双方来说，都是伤害。
Don't get married and shoot it? This place in India averages nine "abductions of the bridegroom"

CCTV Network 04-13 12:14
+ Follow
CCTV News: He was abducted and pointed at guns to marry a girl who was never married. It seemed that the scene that appeared in the movie was repeated in Bihar, India. The 17-year-old youth, Luo Shang, is one of the victims.
Luo Shang: "They kidnapped me, beat me, forced me to get married, and ten people threatened me with a gun. What can I do?"

Congratulations on your chance to win 1 lottery!
advertising

Luo Shang
Despite being forced to hold a wedding ceremony, Luo Shang bravely stood up and reported to the police. Because he wanted to go to school and live a good life, if he accepted the wedding, his life would be destroyed.
Pavel, a 29-year-old man, is also a bridegroom. In 2012, he was forced to marry his wife. However, unlike Luo Shang, Palvin eventually bowed to the so-called "fate." Today, he is already the father of two children.

Palvin
Her husband, Palvin, is the victim, but is his wife happy? Palvin's wife, Maharani, said that friends advised me to forget this and live a happy life. After all, such things often happen.
As Maharani said, in the relatively poor state of Bihar, India, there have been many cases of "abductions of the bridegroom" like this, and the number has increased year after year. According to statistics, 3,405 young men were kidnapped and married in 2017. In 2016, 3,070 men became victims of this bad habit. In 2015 and 2014, the corresponding number of victims was 3,000 and 2,526, respectively. Statistics from the police show that in Bihar, an average of 9 young men are subjected to forced marriage every day.

Indian Bride (Image Source Network)
Why does this happen? It turned out that according to the Indian tradition, the bride must provide jewelry and other items to the groom's house as a dowry. The older a woman is, the higher the amount of dowry that families need to provide in order to marry her, and women who have been unable to get married are considered shame of the entire family. Such cognition leads to the fact that the family of the woman will often marry her daughter as soon as possible at all costs. However, for many impoverished families in India, because they cannot afford a high rate of dowry, they have no choice but to take this opportunity to “tie” the bridegroom home.
Some Indian sociology experts said that this “kidnapping marriage” is an injury to both men and women.
