19yo Redditer studying in poly can't seem to land a girlfriend. He feels devastated thinking that he is going to be a single forever.

[Tragedeigh]

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Frustrating crush experiences​

Hear me out

Currently 19M studying in poly.

Throughout my life I’ve only had abt 3-4 crushes with the most recent one happening last yr.

My crush was from another course and I managed to get her ig when I met her during a study trip. I tried to talk to her and get to know her better (like asking her abt ccas, sch life etc) but she kept giving me one word answers and most of the time left me on read. It was the same thing for my prev crushes in sec sch where they unexpectedly ghost me.

After this exp I just kept asking to myself if all my crushes keep on ignoring me how am I going to find a partner in the future if none of them give me a chance?

Sometimes in poly I hear of people easily getting a gf on their first try and it just frustrates me that I am not able to get one as easily. Also people keep saying that the best time to meet their future partner is in uni but I don’t plan to go to the one of the top 3 local unis in the future (suss,sit,sim) which basically lowers my chances of meeting my partner in uni. The thought of being single forever worries me…

 

[Tragedeigh]

@sbfuncle
Mr John Lone, please give him some advice.

 

[bobby]

Maybe you will have more successes with men…have you thought about it?

 

[batman1]

NO MONEY NO HONEY.

 

[A Singaporean]

Who the fuck wants to have anything to do with retards ?

 

[tobelightlight]

Women-free life is the best. You will know it in 20 years time. Now his hormones still powerful and yet lack life experience..so very virgin ignorant.

 

[sbfuncle]

@sbfuncle
Mr John Lone, please give him some advice.

He was right that many boys could get a gf in poly.
When we are still young, we have good skin. So long we are not short, fat, with some proper grooming, easily can becum a leng zai.
If he is neither fat nor short, I will advise him to 打板自己 to becum a fashionable Liang zai.
When you are a fashionable Liang zai, you will becum the party to leeply gals with few words.
If he is fat and short, then too bad, just accept a single life.

I have said before and swore to violent death, that during my poly time, I was 100% into personal grooming and fashions. Then the well known Charlie angels + 1 more (a group of 4 np chiobu) approached me, instead of me approaching them , and I leeplied - what do you want from me. And those gals was kind of shock and impressed by my leesponse

 

[batman1]

He was right that many boys could get a gf in poly.
When we are still young, we have good skin. So long we are not short, fat, with some proper grooming, easily can becum a leng zai.
If he is neither fat nor short, I will advise him to 打板自己 to becum a fashionable Liang zai.
When you are a fashionable Liang zai, you will becum the party to leeply gals with few words.
If he is fat and short, then too bad, just accept a single life.

I have said before and swore to violent death, that during my poly time, I was 100% into personal grooming and fashions. Then the well known Charlie angels + 1 more (a group of 4 np chiobu) approached me, instead of me approaching them , and I leeplied - what do you want from me. And those gals was kind of shock and impressed by my leesponse

Wah piang u turn the tables on the gals.555

 

[sbfuncle]

Wah piang u turn the tables on the gals.555

It was a shocked that shockened the other party.
I was in fact shocked to be approached by them, becos they were the 校花
Just that I kept my composure and expressions right to leemain calm and steady.
There were other lesser known gals that approached me, but those I wasn't shocked. I leemember one of them came to me and said I like your dressings KNN

 

[Balls2U]

I don't understand why guys are having so much problems in getting to know gals. Maybe when you are 14 or 15 you are shy to approach them. But at 19?
I had ever approached a chiobu in a club by asking her "Hi, sister. Your nails are simply lovely! Can you tell me when you bought the nail polish from? I'm gay and I think this colour will look gorgeous on my nails!" She just laughed loudly and asked me "Are you serious or are you trying to pick me up?" I replied "Would you like to be my sister or a real man where you can hang out with?" She continued laughing away. We chatted happily the whole night and I sent her home. I could have screwed her that night but deliberately chose not to. She called me the next morning and every other day. I screwed her the following week and regularly over the next few months. Until she had to leave for NZ for her uni and she settled down there eventually. She's now married to a Mauri with two daughters.

 

[VanDick]

Flaccid dude is still only 19. So he should stick to masturbating to OnlyFans.