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Chitchat Why do laowai marry ulgy Ah Tiong girls?

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There has long been a debate in China over beauty, and a question that has been raised over and over: Why do foreigners in China tend to date ugly Chinese women?

See Also: Answering the Age Old Question: Why Do Foreigners Marry Ugly Chinese Girls?

A previously published article wrestled with this conundrum. iFeng Beauty writer Xu Xiliang reasoned that Westerners knowingly marry ugly Chinese women because looks aren’t important to them. This back-handed compliment was a way to criticize Chinese society for marrying for superficial reasons. As Xu wrote, “If a man has a wife that is ugly, it is generally accepted that he is a loser.”

Recently, a new article by US-based author Qing Di tackles the same topic. Same as before, Qing discredits Western customs as a way to allow for an examination of Chinese society.

Once again, Qing states that Americans (who stand-in for “Westerners”) “do not place an emphasis upon a person’s external appearance”, instead finding traits such as “a healthy open-mindedness” and “a vigorous self-confidence” to be “beautiful”.

Qing then cuts to the heart of the matter by stating something Westerners may take for granted: that “beauty” and “sexiness” are not the same thing:

To be considered sexy by Americans, one doesn’t need to have a beautiful face, but most definitely requires ample breasts and a huge set of buttocks.

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Bai Ling (shown above) is an American-Chinese actress who has found fame working in the USA, but is not considered “beautiful” by Chinese standards. Qing explains Bai’s success as a product of her willingness to cater to the second standard:

Bai has broken the mold of the traditional Asian beauty that had been entrenched in the mind’s eye of Americans. Even though many feel that Bai has discredited the dignity of the Chinese with her vulgar displays, she has been able to break into the white world of Hollywood and establish her own niche.

As much as this depicts US society as being superficial, Qing uses this point as a way to criticize Chinese society. Although the standard of beauty is rigid in China, Qing points out that the demand for fair skin in China does not have scientific merit:

The highest objective of any animal organism is to pass on their DNA: if the mate is healthy, then their offspring will also naturally be healthy. If a person’s skin is healthy, this will reflect their state of health. And yet, having fair skin won’t necessarily prove the worth of one’s internal qualities.

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Qing suggests the Chinese aesthetic for fair skin is “a remnant of the country’s feudal past” when women were forced to stay at home, and has since ruined the way Chinese people make important choices:

When some rich Chinese look for a marriage partner, the first thing they look for is someone with a “fair-skinned complexion”: they are turning the important decision of finding a life-long spouse into a farce.

As before, finding the answer to “Why do laowai marry ugly Chinese girls?” for Chinese people has less to do with understanding foreign cultures as it has to do with coming to understand the true nature of love.

An ancient Chinese proverbs describes the perfect couple as being “a beautiful woman and a capable man”: but if a man doesn’t love his wife for her beauty, what does he love her for?
 

The_Hypocrite

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Ang more got no taste in Asian women....a lot of them go for the uglies because Asians are exotic to them...its like putting a Benz logo on a shit car...they only see the logo and nothing else
 

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Ang more got no taste in Asian women....a lot of them go for the uglies because Asians are exotic to them...its like putting a Benz logo on a shit car...they only see the logo and nothing else

Haha such a good analogy! It's same with PRC buying anything with Angmo brand logo slapped on it.
 

blueRad

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Because they want the exotic look. Not the "Asian women that wants to be like Ang Moh" look that so many Asian rave over.
 

red amoeba

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Supply n demand. The same can be asked y Singapore girls throw themselves at any Ang Moh, beer belly n all.
 

neddy

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Westernised Angmoh women are too independent for their liking.

Then again, I have enough of Asian women. After getting to know Slavic ladies, I think they are the best.
 

Jah_rastafar_I

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notice how these ugly Chinese women are willing to sell themselves out like whores. Bai ling would never make it back in China but in the US she has to act like that to be special. Disscotiavtive personality.
 

Pinkieslut

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notice how these ugly Chinese women are willing to sell themselves out like whores. Bai ling would never make it back in China but in the US she has to act like that to be special. Disscotiavtive personality.

Actually Bai Ling has some good acting abilities. But I guess she needs to act out the Asian-Slut-Whore-SuckDick-LoveYouLongTime personality in-order to get noticed in US. She is actually quite articulate in person (both English and Mandarin) if you bother to search for her interviews on Youtube.
 

Jah_rastafar_I

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Actually Bai Ling has some good acting abilities. But I guess she needs to act out the Asian-Slut-Whore-SuckDick-LoveYouLongTime personality in-order to get noticed in US. She is actually quite articulate in person (both English and Mandarin) if you bother to search for her interviews on Youtube.

yeah and the fact that she chose to do that rather than stick to her principles shows how cheap she is.

I can bet Chinese cinema wouldn't do that as in get non Chinese to act a certain stereotype but China is still obviously more racist than the US. :rolleyes:
 

neddy

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Who cares about Trump. His daughter is worth a look. Still, I am a convert to angmoh eastern european girls.
 

Kuailan

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Just go ask two most powerful men in the world Rupert Murdoch and Tony Blair who recycled the same ATB :wink:

That Bloody Wendy Bitch must damn good in bed able to do blow job and ass licking,

that's old Angmo fell for it.. including Tony Blame going for more!!
 
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