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Study shows women who slept around less before marriage is happier; opposite for men

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Women who don't sleep around before their wedding have happier marriages - but men can play the field without worry, study finds


  • 53% of women who had slept only with husband felt satisfied in marriage
  • Dropped to 42% if woman had more than 2 partners and 22% if more than 10
  • Sex with many different partners 'may be risky' if wanting a happy marriage
  • Those with more partners struggled because they are aware of alternatives

By STEPH COCKROFT FOR MAILONLINE

PUBLISHED: 16:56 GMT, 24 August 2014 | UPDATED: 05:42 GMT, 25 August 2014

Women who have several sexual partners before getting married have less happy marriages - but men do no harm by playing the field,a study has found.

According to new research by the National Marriage Project, more than half of married women who had only ever slept with their future husband felt highly satisfied in their marriage.


But that percentage dropped to 42 per cent once the woman had had pre-marital sex with at least two partners. It dropped to 22 per cent for those with ten or more partners.


But, for men, the number of partners a man they appeared to have no bearing on how satisfied they felt within a marriage.


Researchers said the study showed that sex with many different partners 'may be risky' if the woman is in search of a high-quality marriage.


It concluded: 'Remember that what you do before you say 'I do' seems to have a notable impact on your marital future. So decide wisely.'


The findings were published in 'Before 'I Do': What Do Premarital Experiences Have to Do with Marital Quality Among Today’s Young Adults?', published at the University of Virginia.


The report, by Galena K Rhoades and Scott M Stanley, said the first conclusion of the study was that 'What happens in Vegas doesn’t stay in Vegas'.


It means our past experiences, especially when it comes to love, are linked to our future marital quality, they said.


The researchers said those who had more partners perhaps find it difficult to commit to their spouse because they were aware of the alternatives.


They added that more experiences of breaking up can give people a 'more jaundiced view of love' which could affect future relationships.


The report said: 'Many in Generation YOLO (you only live once) believe that what happens while you’re young won’t affect your future. But our research paints a different picture.


'This doesn’t mean that sex before marriage will doom a marriage, but sex with many different partners may be risky if you’re looking for a high-quality marriage.'


It continued: 'Having had more relationship experiences prior to marriage also means more experience breaking up.


'A history of multiple breakups may make people take a more jaundiced view of love and relationships.'


The study also found that couples who had more than 150 guests at their ceremony had the greatest marital quality down the line.


It said: 'We think this finding has to do with making a public declaration of commitment and having community support.


'The more support a couple has, the better they are able to navigate the occasional choppy waters associated with marriage.'


The study tracked the relationships of a representative national sample in America of 1,294 unmarried men and women aged 18-34.


The researchers followed the subjects for five years. In that time, 418 were married.


Only 23 per cent of those who got married during the survey had sex solely with the person they married.



 

syed putra

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I suppose virgins are the happiest women alive then!
 

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1. Inaccurate survey

2. Curiosity kill the cat


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laksaboy

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This is the truth. Best is to not get married at all.

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The reason for the findings is that women taking the survey are unlikely to say that they have multiple partners as they are perceived as sluts. The men on the hand are treated completely opposite. Even the virgins will claim that they bedded down a few women.
 

sochi2014

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Probably written by MCP.

Male Chauvinist Pig!
 

exSINgaporean

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Re: Study shows women who slept around less before marriage is happier; opposite for

This is true!

This is my first hand experience. Too private to put in public post.
 

looneytan

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If you have sex with tonychat before marriage you will find your marriage is heavenly
 

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Now I know why lots of Sinkie women are unhappy with their lives.
 

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Re: Study shows women who slept around less before marriage is happier; opposite for

This is very true....

I wonder why some people keep getting married and divorced......... as if it is so important to bond with a piece of paper.

This is the truth. Best is to not get married at all.

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laksaboy

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Re: Study shows women who slept around less before marriage is happier; opposite for

This is very true....

I wonder why some people keep getting married and divorced......... as if it is so important to bond with a piece of paper.

Peer and family pressure.

Even the govt is getting into the act of selling marriage.

http://marriagecentral.sg/

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laksaboy

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Re: Study shows women who slept around less before marriage is happier; opposite for

Pop culture has also infused unhealthy and downright silliness into the concept of marriage. :wink:

Some people do not outgrow this despite finishing puberty.


[video=youtube;XODgZTkT5GA]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XODgZTkT5GA[/video]
 

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Re: Study shows women who slept around less before marriage is happier; opposite for

The simple fact that marriage proposal is already an sexist act.

A man is expected to kneel and beg for the girl to marry him when in fact, we all know that girl is more desperate to be married.
 

congo9

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Re: Study shows women who slept around less before marriage is happier; opposite for

Pop culture has also infused unhealthy and downright silliness into the concept of marriage. :wink:

Some people do not outgrow this despite finishing puberty.

[video=youtube;XODgZTkT5GA]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XODgZTkT5GA[/video]

I just cannot fathom why a swan is begging a toad to marry her ? Maybe he has made her cum so hard every night and she loses her mind over this man. Will that happen in real life.

I told my wife that Korean Drama destroy marriage just like Pornography destroy a man's sex life.
 

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Women who sleep around are called SLUT. Man who sleep around are called Lethal. There will always be the label around. Man sleeping around is their ability to sow seed so that mankind can flourish
 

congo9

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Now I know why lots of Sinkie women are unhappy with their lives.

They are not happy because they didn't get their fair share of high fashion handbags. I tried buying a bag for my wife and she carried to church. She was in the limelight and her friends was teasing her. She felt so delightful. Monday , she call me back for lunch and "she does her work willingly"

Anyway, this type of BAG buying activity must be limited. They will feel it is their entitlement if you do it too often.
 

laksaboy

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Re: Study shows women who slept around less before marriage is happier; opposite for

I told my wife that Korean Drama destroy marriage just like Pornography destroy a man's sex life.


Chick literature also does this e.g. Eat Pray Love, Fifty Shades of Grey, Confessions of a Shopaholic, Twilight series etc. If a woman enjoys reading these books, chances are she's a ball-busting bitch. Stay away from them, or tread carefully. :biggrin:
 

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Re: Study shows women who slept around less before marriage is happier; opposite for

Chick literature also does this e.g. Eat Pray Love, Fifty Shades of Grey, Confessions of a Shopaholic, Twilight series etc. If a woman enjoys reading these books, chances are she's a ball-busting bitch. Stay away from them, or tread carefully. :biggrin:

A women who love to think too much will not be a attractive women at all.
 
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