ITE student jumps to death after claiming counsellor molested her

Raiders · Sep 11, 2012

looneytan said:
hard to find one

I thought there is this Dr Ho Cheng around? Her pics used to make the rounds here :biggrin:

Raiders · Sep 11, 2012

Fishypie said:
that was when i got Lagi steamed.
Somehow i can sense that this cheebye Lau chio doc was a fucking cock teaser ! ! knn, how i LOved every moment of it.Went back home, took the cramp's medication and immediateLy pcc the wouLd-be expLoding spermies out.
:o

If it were me, I would have ended up at Geylang rather than my house :biggrin:

Anyway, if you know Tampines well, there is this clinic near SAFRA that offers erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation consultation and the doctor registered on the plague is a woman's name. You might want to be the commando and give us a FR :biggrin:

Fishypie · Sep 11, 2012

If you want to pong-chong some $, i may consider.. :wink:

Raiders · Sep 11, 2012

Just had a chat with little tigress. She just came back from NUH for her checkup and she was telling me how beautiful and young the gynae was. Just for you cheekopeks :biggrin:

http://www.nuhgynae.com.sg/cos/o.x?c=/wbn/pagetree&func=view&rid=1055988

streetsmart73 · Sep 11, 2012

ilovesingapore said:
Never counsel a girl in distress. Surely invite troubles. You must have an iron resolve to handle such a situation.Especially when the girl is vulnerable emotionally. This is a very sad and tragic case.

It appears to me that women in Singapore are no longer safe anywhere. There are so many molest and rape cases here. Is it due to wide-spread porno ? Or are people here getting more horny and sexually unrestrained taking advantages of vulerable girls and women?

hi there

1. yo! gals & women equally horny & itchy hoh!
2. it takes 2 to clap.
3. also 2 to bonk mah!

streetsmart73 · Sep 11, 2012

Fishypie said:
Me waiting for the day when i can pour my heart's out to a chio Lady counseLLor..

hi there

1. bro, taking it from you.
2. i doubt it will be your heart that you want to "pour" hoh!

ilovesingapore · Sep 11, 2012

Kinana said:
Why need to die? 16 only. So sad.

She was mentally unstable. A slight provacation and stress just pushed her over. The counsellor should have known NOT to take advantage of such a "sick" person. Very unethical and unprofessional. So is there going to be a case against the counsellor ? Can the parents sue the counsellor ?

ilovesingapore · Sep 11, 2012

streetsmart73 said:
hi there

1. yo! gals & women equally horny & itchy hoh!
2. it takes 2 to clap.
3. also 2 to bonk mah!

I agreed. When the girl is in a very unsteady and vulnerable stage, it is unprofessional for a counsellor to take advantage of her. She may not be in a steady mind of her own to make a sound decision. The same applies to a doctor-patient relationship. Or a psychiatrist and his mentally disadvantaged patient. Yes, two hands to clap if they are of equal strength and equal intelligence ....and awareness.

ilovesingapore · Sep 11, 2012

streetsmart73 said:
hi there

1. bro, taking it from you.
2. i doubt it will be your heart that you want to "pour" hoh!

Yes you can. The same applies to a professional woman listening to a young man in distress. Both can end up in a sexually intimate and burning relationship. It happened and it will continue to happen.

lianbeng · Sep 11, 2012

streetsmart73 said:
hi there

1. yo! gals & women equally horny & itchy hoh!
2. it takes 2 to clap.
3. also 2 to bonk mah!

lianbeng noted all ur 3 points valid but why touched only must jump? touched where? :confused:

blur sotong · Sep 11, 2012

Fishypie said:
Asked me to Lie face up on the bed and began pressing around my stomach and naveL regions.Her face & bosoms was Like damned cLosed to me, and Looking into my eyes; asking where my pain was whiLe her hand was pressing around.
Somehow i got an immediate hard-on.......Back to the chair after diagnosis; our eyes were Like interLocked for awhiLe..that was when i got Lagi steamed.
Somehow i can sense that this cheebye Lau chio doc was a fucking cock teaser ! ! knn, how i LOved every moment of it.

Bro Fishypie, can you go and see that lau chio doctor again and tell her you have this genital pain. Read up here before you go:

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/interact...s--groin--testicles--buttocks-t40458-f10.html

Looking forward to your report soon. Enjoy!!

ilovesingapore · Sep 11, 2012

Beautiful and charming lady doctors is a real turn on!!! They know how to tickle you and to raise your flag without baiting an eyelid! Many of them are not married.

ChiKopPow · Sep 11, 2012

Sad la. Why must jump building. So young so more.

ilovesingapore · Sep 11, 2012

ChiKopPow said:
Sad la. Why must jump building. So young so more.

We will never know the answer for those who committed suicide are all dead. Dead people cannot tell us their stories. We always wonder why? Why take your life? Why jump ? Why kill yourself? We will never know. Even the doctor who died in Australia emailed and said he found happiness at long last - by ending his life. We will never know the reasons. We, the living, can only speculate and guess why....and condemn them for their dastardly coward act.

BuiKia · Sep 12, 2012

This is Michael Tay?

Papsmearer · Sep 12, 2012

ilovesingapore said:
Never counsel a girl in distress. Surely invite troubles. You must have an iron resolve to handle such a situation.Especially when the girl is vulnerable emotionally. This is a very sad and tragic case.

It appears to me that women in Singapore are no longer safe anywhere. There are so many molest and rape cases here. Is it due to wide-spread porno ? Or are people here getting more horny and sexually unrestrained taking advantages of vulerable girls and women?

What kind of shit are u spewing? The guy is a counsellor, his job is to counsel people when they need help. If he say I don't want to counsel any females in distress, than he would lose 75% of his business, and might as well close shop. Even if he is an academic counsellor, students will always be asking for advice on other topics. If he did his counselling job right, the girl would still be alive. Instead, he let his lancheow do the thinking and wanted to fuck the 16 year old girl. No she is dead. This guy is not a counsellor and he gives the profession a bad name. He is a predator preying on young vulnerable girls and conning them into having sex with him.

Regarding women no safe in singapore, another shit comment from u. Its men that are not safe. If u get into a lift with a girl, and she gets off and screams rape/molest and point her finger at u, guarantee u are in trouble even though u did not lay a finger on her. Here, the courts judge u on whether they like your face, your job, your background, and who's story is more "believeable" etc. Never mind there is no evidence whatsoever that u touch her other than her say so.

ionzu · Sep 12, 2012

Cruxx said:
I don't know many counsellors but the ones I've the misfortune of meeting in Singapore are as you described. Like I've argued ad nauseam, Singaporeans have no morals. Social workers are not exempt from this edifying rule of thumb.

middle class (im)morality. you cannot afford to have morals when your state of mind is one of poverty and desperation

ilovesingapore · Sep 12, 2012

If you got a shit mouth you will always spout shit. You don't have to be so shitty in your comments. You can disagree with my points of comments.But there is no need to pour your shitty faecal anchovy sauce over your own shitty dickhead/Got it? Now FUCK OFF your shitty dickhead!!!

BuiKia · Sep 13, 2012

This sound really sad and scary...the teachers will be haunted for life.

SINGAPORE - She was a troubled teen who turned to her ITE counsellor for help last year.

They ended up being sexually intimate. He would later tell investigators that it was consensual.

But two weeks later, she alleged to her school that he had molested her.

About a month later, still haunted by the incident, she jumped to her death from the sixth storey of a building at ITE College East at Simei Avenue.

These details were revealed yesterday at a coroner's inquiry into the death of Chiu Ka Ying, who was 16 years old at the time.

Of Indian ethnicity, she was adopted by her Chinese parents soon after her birth. This identity crisis bothered her.

Ka Ying also had a history of self-harm behaviour and she was admitted to Changi General Hospital in 2010 for cutting her wrists.

But the alleged molest was what drove her into depression. In an examination at the Institute of Mental Health (IMH) just five days before her death, she said she had been molested by her lecturer and kept having flashbacks of the incident.

The Life Skills lecturer, Mr Michael Tay Jau Jen, 36, started teaching Ka Ying's class on July 11 last year.

Mr Tay, who was also a counsellor in the school, gave his mobile number to his students, telling them they could approach him with school problems and even personal problems.

Related personal problems

Ka Ying later sent him a text message and related some of her personal problems to him.

He told investigators that she had frequently hinted that she was interested in sexual activities and asked if he could help her.

Three days later, the two of them met up in a classroom alone and became sexually intimate. Mr Tay said it was purely consensual.

The nature of their sexual intimacy was not mentioned.

Ka Ying later told one of her friends that it happened more than once but fewer than five times.

Each time, they would meet in a classroom and Mr Tay would behave intimately by touching her.

When her friend asked why she didn't shout for help, Ka Ying replied that her mind was blank and that she did not know what to do.

Her friend told her to make a police report. But she refused, saying that she didn't want to escalate the matter further. She also told her friend that she was in a relationship with Mr Tay.

Eventually, on July 27, she did alert the school, alleging that Mr Tay had molested her.

The next day, the school called him up to find out what happened. He then stopped having contact with Ka Ying.

The ITE's investigation report said the allegations could not be confirmed as there were no witnesses and the alleged incident had taken place behind closed doors.

But the school found that Mr Tay had behaved unprofessionally.

He subsequently quit on Aug 8 while the investigations were going on, citing the investigation and personal family problems as reasons.

The school said they couldn't stop him from resigning before disciplinary proceedings were initiated.

Counsellors were shocked that a counsellor had had sexual intimacy with a teenager seeking his help, with one saying that he had "abused his position of trust to a vulnerable young girl".

After Ka Ying showed signs of depression, the ITE arranged for her to be counselled at IMH. She reported feeling anxious and said she experienced episodes of panic attacks with palpitations and feelings of doom.

But she did not report any suicidal plans or intent.

Then, on the night before her death, she texted her friend to ask what would happen if she died.

Her friend revealed that it wasn't the first time that Ka Ying had mentioned wanting to commit suicide, and that she had done so more often after the alleged molest.

On Sept 6 at about 11am, Ka Ying poured out all her personal problems to her friend.

She talked about her family matters and the alleged molest by Mr Tay repeatedly.

She even cursed and hoped that he would be punished for what he did to her.

Ka Ying was stressed by the impending examinations and she had not studied because of what had happened to her.

At 5.35pm that day, she called a female lecturer, Ms Png Tan Chen Wan, twice, but the calls went unanswered.

Ms Png sent her a text message saying that she was busy.

Ka Ying texted her back and said: "If I annoy you, please pardon me, I won't disturb you any more."

Ms Png replied: "You understand I am busy, right?" Ka Ying did not reply.

Five minutes later, she called a male lecturer, Mr Mohd Zaidi Mohd Yacob, to thank him for being her teacher. She also said that he would not see her the next day.

He told another lecturer, who then went looking for her.

A jogger spotted Ka Ying sitting on the staircase railing on the sixth storey of the ITE's School of Business and Services, with her legs dangling outside of the railing.

The jogger told a student, who alerted the ITE's course manager, Mr Parwinder Singh.

Mr Singh, who had been trained in suicide intervention, called the police and tried to get her to safety. But she told him to go away.

Just then, Ms Png appeared with another lecturer.

Ka Ying looked at her with a resigned expression, turned her head forward and jumped off the railing.

She was pronounced dead at 6.21pm.

State Coroner Imran Abdul Hamid said that Ka Ying had jumped with the intention of taking her life.

BuiKia · Sep 13, 2012

This sinkie so stupid can be state coroner?

She jump so that she can reach the ground faster and go canteen is it?

State Coroner Imran Abdul Hamid said that Ka Ying had jumped with the intention of taking her life.

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