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ThoughtsI have built a connection with someone from
work who is happily married with two kids without knowing I was.
When he expressed his feelings for me, I reflected on my feelings and I felt like I felt the same.
I was very hesitant to continue this as you can imagine because of my internal conflict between my moral compass and the desire to spend time with him.
I have mentioned to him that I don’t wanna ruin his family or wanna be involved in any way that will destroy a family. I’ve also mentioned he has more to lose than I do.
However, I find myself wanting to speak to him and spend more time with him.
Surprisingly, I don’t really feel jealous of his wife or bad about being the other person.
I just enjoy spending time with him and being with him.
Why do I feel this way? and I guess I am wanting to hear others experiences? so that I can gain more insight into where I am at.
I worry about being judged and can’t expressly
true thoughts about this whole situation to most of my friends.P.S I work with lots of women with kids and I do not want this to reach them as I will be hated by everyone and my career will be over basically.
