She is absolutely right. Women are exhausted because men seem to leave everything to women.
However, women were happy that men left everything to them. It means women were able to control everything at the start of the marriage. Women wanted control, and they got it.
If you want to control a person, you have to make that person dependent on you. This is why they take away your jobs and give you CDC vouchers.
From a woman's perspective, marriage is all about controlling your
(1) moral values - she determines what is right or wrong,
(2) emotions - so that she can blackmail you and you are always at her bidding ; and
(3) finance - for obvious reasons.