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钱财乃身外之物,活在当下,乐在当下,平平淡淡才是真

gsbslut

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钱财乃身外之物,活在当下,乐在当下,平平淡淡才是真

一个人在还没有成功之前,很多人很渴望赚到很多钱,有的人在穷困潦倒时,却做了一辈子的发财梦;有的人腰缠万贯,却爱财如命。这两种人活着都没什么意思,该得到的没有得到,该享受的没有享受到,因为财富确实是一个人成就的肯定,社会也是以你拥有财富的多少来衡量你的成败。当一个人有了钱之后就成了别人眼中的成功人士,可以在媒体上抛头露面,可以出入高档消费场所,可以拥有自己想要的东西。因此很多人一生都为了金钱而活着,不管有没有钱,每天都是为了钱而奔波劳碌。在你缺钱的时候,你会感觉钱的魅力与伟大,但一旦你已经拥有了一大笔钱的时候,金钱就仅仅是你满足生活的一种工具。

就像有个人问我:“生活是为了赚钱,还是赚钱是为了生活?”当你饥寒交迫的时候,你会把赚钱当成你的人生大事,但当你生活富足、每天大鱼大肉的时候,赚钱还是你人生的唯一追求吗?人是要有精神寄托的,当钱已经成了数字游戏的时候,如果没有其他的追求,你往往会变得非常空虚和无聊。按道理来说,此刻生活已经很充实,很有成就感,但事实上,生活却非常无奈,很多人都存在攀比心理,有句俗话叫:我现在穷得只剩下钱!这也许正是这类人的真实写照,拥有巨额财富原本是件幸事,但如果只是沉浸在金钱之中,而没有其他的追求,只是通过金钱去买一些低级的快乐,那么他虽然是财富上的富豪,但在精神世界里却一贫如洗。

事业虽能给你带来精神上的满足,但这也会让人步入一个思想的误区,过于把事业放在第一位,任何其他东西都得为其让道。所以一些人常常以事业为借口,把所有的时间和精力投放到事业上去,很少去关注事业以外的事情,哪怕是亲情和友情。有些人不光自己这么投入,还要亲人去支持和理解他,他认为亲人应该站在他的立场上,支持他以事业为重。但他忽视了人是一种感情动物,有很多东西并不是事业和金钱所能弥补的。

陷入事业的人常常会陷入一个误区:过于把事业放在第一位,而很少去关注事业以外的事,比如说妻子情感的抚爱、孩子的成长、父母的陪伴等,这些事情其实和你的事业一样珍贵。陷入事业的人好像总有忙不完的事,有时候除了为公司的事忙碌外,回家后还得把业余时间挤出来处理一些公司的事,或者把事业中遇到的事情像发泄一样地向家人唠叨不停,甚至有时把在创业中受到的气撒在自己的家人身上。似乎他养活了一家人,别人都成了他的生活负担一样,更不用说去关爱自己的亲人,其实亲人一直是你背后的默默支持者,他们的那份真情才是你的精神支柱,才是你生活的价值,如果这些事没有处理好,导致后院起火,你根本无心去打拼事业。另外,还有许多事情值得你去关注,比如你的健康、了解生活百态、去感受大自然的美等,这些事情都是你一生中很珍贵的。

例如奋斗了一生事业有成了,身体却出现某种疾病,健康问题可能会给你带来无穷无尽的痛苦,无法去体验生活和大自然的美。不然等你老了就算你赚到了一座金山银山也无法让时光倒流,让你去体验年轻时的快乐时光,大家说对不对?一个人一生只扑在事业上,而失去了事业之外的乐趣,人这一生注定残缺不齐的。我们应该还要有金钱之外的享受,才能整天沐浴在一片阳光欢乐之中,满怀激情地开创事业,幸福快乐地享受生活。我觉得无论富有与贫穷,一定要活在当下乐在当下
 

CoffeeAhSoh

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Google Translate :

Money is an external thing; living in the moment, finding joy in the moment, and living a simple life are true.

Before one succeeds, many people eagerly desire to earn a lot of money.

Some dream of getting rich their whole lives, even when they are impoverished.

Some are wealthy but obsessed with money. Both types of people lead meaningless lives; they don't get what they should, nor do they enjoy what they have because wealth indeed affirms one's achievements, and society measures success by the amount of wealth one possesses.

When someone has money, they become successful in the eyes of others; they can appear in the media, frequent upscale places, and have what they desire.

Therefore, many people live their entire lives for money, regardless of whether they have it or not; every day is spent in pursuit of it.

When you lack money, you feel its charm and greatness, but once you have a large sum, money becomes just a tool for satisfying life.

Someone once asked me, "Is life about making money, or do we make money to live?"

When you're struggling, making money becomes a major focus, but when you're living comfortably, is making money still your sole pursuit?

Humans need spiritual fulfillment, and when money becomes a mere game of numbers without other pursuits, one can feel very empty and bored.

Although life seems fulfilling and satisfying at this moment, it's actually quite helpless.

Many people engage in comparisons, as the saying goes: "I'm so poor that all I have left is money!" This may be the true portrayal of such individuals.

While having immense wealth is fortunate, if one only indulges in money without other pursuits, only seeking low-level happiness through it, they may be rich in wealth but impoverished in their spiritual world.

While a career can bring spiritual satisfaction, it can also lead one into a mindset where career is prioritized above all else, neglecting relationships and other aspects of life.

Some people use their careers as an excuse to devote all their time and energy to it, rarely paying attention to anything outside of it, even familial bonds and friendships.

These individuals not only immerse themselves in their work but also expect their loved ones to support and understand their career-focused mindset.

However, they overlook the fact that humans are emotional beings, and many things cannot be compensated for by career and money alone.

People consumed by their careers often fall into the trap of prioritizing work above all else, neglecting things like emotional support for their spouses, nurturing their children, and spending time with their parents, which are just as precious as their careers.

It seems there's always too much to do for those engrossed in their careers.

Sometimes, apart from dealing with work matters at home, they spend their free time talking endlessly about work issues, or even venting their frustrations on their family members.

It's as if they're solely responsible for providing for their family, viewing others as burdens rather than loved ones to care for. In reality, family members are the silent supporters behind you; their genuine affection is your spiritual backbone, the value of your life.

If these matters aren't handled well and trouble arises within the family, you'll lose the drive to pursue your career.

Additionally, there are many other things worth paying attention to, such as your health, understanding the diverse aspects of life, and experiencing the beauty of nature—all of which are precious in your life.

For example, if you spend your whole life striving for career success but neglect your health, you may face endless suffering from health issues and miss out on experiencing the beauty of life and nature.

Otherwise, even if you amass wealth in your old age, you can't turn back time to relive the joyful moments of youth, wouldn't you agree?

Devoting one's entire life to a career while missing out on the joys outside of it ensures an incomplete existence. We should seek enjoyment beyond money to bask in the sunshine of joy and passion, to pursue careers with enthusiasm, and to enjoy life with happiness and contentment.

I believe that regardless of wealth or poverty, it's essential to live in the moment and find joy in it.
 

congo9

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Don't pose such a loser article.
If you can't make 30k to 40k a month in sgd, you are just a loser.

You see thes people with this level of income kpkb about life ? They just pack their bags off and go abroad 4 to 5 times a year.

Warren Buffett ,gates or even Zuckerberg, they have bag loads of money. Do they tell you to be satisfied and happy with life ,
Live happy ? Of course they do. But in the end, they Maketh much more in life .
 
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