Very well articulated.
First, role models live by their example, not by preaching dogma. Second, true spirituality permeates all facets of life, not just pertaining to the worship of a deity based on words from dusty millennia-old manuscripts and ossified centuries-old rituals.
A strong and compassionate politician guiding his nation to greatness is a spiritual role model. As is a teacher putting her soul into nurturing generations of educated and moral youth. As is the padi farmer breaking his back every day to put food on his – and your – table. As is a journalist putting his life on the line bringing you news and pictures from the world's war zones.
I can go on, but you get my drift.