And mangina chootchiew will take her review very seriously.
Not just a review. More like darn serious life and death appraisal.
Sometimes it's really hard to drill into the skull of some men who are so accustomed to deriving personal worth from the positive perceptions coming from the opposite sex. It feels like the men are the contestants parading on the stage in bikinis and the women are the judges.
The truth is women don't tell the truth and men should never take a woman's word seriously. Women would always hide their true intentions.
The example of the gal friend pontificating on confidence of a man when ordering food in a restaurant is another load of bullshit from women who are apparently attempting to pull the wool over the sheep's eyes.
The truth is she wanted to be brought to a high class restaurant for a free meal and the man disappointed her, but she could not bring herself to tell the truth and admit that she is just an ordinary materialistic bitch. So she came up with this "confidence" bullshit and cleverly placed the blame on the man. It's better for her to say that she rejected him because he lacked confidence than to admit that he was a poor man who could not afford to support her materialistic aspirations and insatiable appetite for vanity.
If she is really impressed by a man's confidence when ordering food, a man's knowledge of food menus in a restaurant, she should walk straight into the kitchen and offer her "abalone" on the kitchen top to the Ah Tiong cook who is on a work permit. The Ah Tiong cook and his sidekick Bangla helper would even know how to cook the food from the menus, let alone order "with confidence".
