my girl friend says...men confidence can be measured in restaurants

looneytan said:

Was she the one you gave that handbag to?

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chootchiew said:

Not gf but gal friend.
She say she can see a men confidence and success when she go blind date in a restaurant. I just keep quiet.
And thinking to myself. Nabei cb if the food being ordered are all sibe expensive of course men will get heart attack and cannot order in a gentlemen form la.
If I have a lot of money to spend for that blind date, I will be very confident also. What u think of the knn comment.

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Onitsuka said:

Bro chootchiew, you may have misunderstood your "gal friend". I don't think it's about money or expensive food.

A man exudes confidence in many areas, and ordering food in a restaurant is one of the areas where his confidence can be manifested. At no time did your gal friend mention "expensive" restaurant, did she ? It's more about familiarity with the subject matter - knowing the menus and knowing what is tasty or what is not, just like the captain of the restaurant. Your confidence is a natural consequence of your familiarity with the subject at hand, especially when dealing with wine.

At the same time, she could also be hinting to you that she would love to be dominated by men. Don't get defensive easily and start straying into concerns about having lots of money and ordering expensive food in the restaurant.

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JohnTan said:

My wife says I am super confident because I treat her to wagyu beef.

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chootchiew said:

Bro u r right on track. This is exactly what she meant. To exhibit a kind of confidence during the ordering process.
What I meant is when I hv alot of money, I need not care about the menu price tag and hence I can also deliver the confidence ordering. If my money allocated for that meal is limited, I will panic and hence will not be able to fake confidence lor.

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war is best form of peace said:

You better educate the bitch.
Man's confident is measure ONLY within war zone. How man face enemies and take care of business in war.
That include rape and kill enemies women definitely.
Real wealth of a real man is not what he earned peacefully or use money to pay for, it should rightly only be what he possess from the enemies by carnage.

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Wunderfool said:

These days, the way to a woman's heart is through the stomach.
Buy her expensive meals and she will fall heads and heels over you ( that's because she is overweight from too much eating).

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tonychat said:

if you cannot have the confidence in ordering the meal , then why the fuck you go out with a female and has so much emotional and thought issues from it..

this is what happen when you don't go MGTOW.. you let females give you problems on their perception on you.. Fuck care them and live your life lah. You do not need their bullshit rules and conditions to life your OWN life as a man..

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Wunderfool said:

These days, a girl wants a man who is rich, handsome, funny, confident, courteous, gentlemanly, macho, courageous, caring, etc.

Where to find ?

I am told the way to know a man's character and confidence is by watching him play his game be it soccer, basketball, rugby, badminton , golf or any other game. His true colors show up when he is in the game.

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chootchiew said:

Yeah I have to agree . After that incident when I go with other gal I make sure I am financially ready for that expensive meal else I siam .

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