Hi all the big bros here, I've ORD earlier this May, it's like finally but quickly shut down as I need to either continue uni or start work, I choose to work as I believe I didn't have the heart to go uni and even if I do I don't have the confidence to do well. So I been in and out of jobs and currently in this 1 year contract with Singtel as an associate engineer earning a over 2k+...I also have a gf that is working as admin a bit lesser than my salary. It's like in singapore is it enough with combine pay of like 4k? I don't know if I am able to get higher increment or able to get a perm job, I will do my best but I really need some advice as I progress, I just passed my 23rd birthday, thinking of the future kinda stressed me out, do I need to earn enough to get a car? or how much do I really need as a safe figure to have like a decent 3-4rm flat..getting married, how much monthly do I really need to earn to live normally with sometimes able go overseas, parents also old and always nagging about no time for family get together..how you guys juggle work life gf/wife, parents and also if have kids how, how much health I need to sacrifice to support all this? is it a must to have them? Feels a bit overloaded at the moment..