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What if one day your daughter come and tell you that she wants to marry a pinoy?

laksaboy

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Isn't it wonderful to not get married and have kids?

You don't have to fret over who he/she screws or brings home or marries.

Most importantly, you won't be exploited as free source of childcare service.

Simply wonderful.
 

syed putra

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Loyal
Not so bad. Get to retire on Palawan island. Nice and cheap and quiet and people speak English. Unlike in Thailand.
 

zeddy

Alfrescian (Inf)
Asset
As title suggest, what would your reaction be? Give blessings? object agree? Knowing that the pinoy will almost gain PR (if he still not yet get) by marrying your daughter, and she is adamant on marrying that guy. Chances are already bedded by him, what would you do?

With projected PRs and foreigners numbers being almost 50%, your daughter has 50% chance of marrying non-sinkie. Most non-sinkie are pinoys, chinks and nehs.. what would you do?

I will ask that Pinoy chap to sing and dance in front of me..

Then I will ask him to play the guitar.. After that I will whack his head with the guitar..
 

garlic

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From the replies here, it would seem that parents cant really do anything if their daughters really choose to marry filipino (or nehs or chinks), no matter what intentions the parents suspect the guy might be harbouring... really gotta accept :( .. dont know whether the kid will speak with filipino accent or remain sinkie accent? hmm..

Probably the furthest one can do is to make known in will nothing will (if u have lotsa $) be left to the daughter if she chooses to marry one. But how many parents can bear to do that?
 

tonychat

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As title suggest, what would your reaction be? Give blessings? object agree? Knowing that the pinoy will almost gain PR (if he still not yet get) by marrying your daughter, and she is adamant on marrying that guy. Chances are already bedded by him, what would you do?

With projected PRs and foreigners numbers being almost 50%, your daughter has 50% chance of marrying non-sinkie. Most non-sinkie are pinoys, chinks and nehs.. what would you do?

why the fuck are you still staying in sinkieland.. move to ang mor country, so they got the chance to marry ang mor..but why are you complaining about pinoy, they got more balls than sinkie low life.
 

The_Hypocrite

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Asset
Well if got alot of money,,can always put in trust,,for daughter only,,,and her children,,the pinoy get nothing,,,money comes in bit by bit every month,,,get wat i mean?

From the replies here, it would seem that parents cant really do anything if their daughters really choose to marry filipino (or nehs or chinks), no matter what intentions the parents suspect the guy might be harbouring... really gotta accept :( .. dont know whether the kid will speak with filipino accent or remain sinkie accent? hmm..

Probably the furthest one can do is to make known in will nothing will (if u have lotsa $) be left to the daughter if she chooses to marry one. But how many parents can bear to do that?
 

fukyuman

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Loyal
An American colleague once described Philippines. 500 years in a convent (the Spanish), 50 years in the whorehouse (under the Americans). The US sailors had great time there. They even have memorable bawdy songs.

Oh, we won't go back to Subic in the Spring,
Oh, we won't go back to Subic in the Spring,
The mosquitoes there are too big,
And they bite you on the pubic,
So, we won't go back to Subic in the Spring.

Oh, the ladies wear no teddies in Manila,
Oh, the ladies wear no teddies in Manila,
Oh, the ladies wear no teddies,
They're a bunch of ever-readies,
Oh, the ladies wear no teddies in Manila.

After WWII, the Philippines is the richest nation in South East Asia with American war surpluses. Now its a failed country. Ruled by a group of rich families including Marcos, Arroyos, Aquinos. Their only abundant export is their legions of foreign workers and perishables like mangoes. Manufactured goods exports are marginal. Foreign firms are wary setting up their factories there. Unions are strong and are willing to picket until investors would rather demolish their factories and move elsewhere.

Its a society run by women. Its not unusually to see their offices staffed entirely by women. Their male boss leaving everything to them. Small sundry shops are run by housewives with female names on the signboards. The men do nothing much, except maybe toting rusting handguns. As people they are probably not smart. Simple multi-tasking skills are beyond their ability such as preparing for check-in or taking your orders even you are their first diner. One American POW who stayed behind to organize resistance against the Japanese recommended treating them like children by giving them endless reminders, otherwise its endless fiestas and not fighting the war. Pinoys are poor people. In ShoeMart there are rows and rows of cheap China imports such as flip flops. In supermarkets they tend to buy small sized tooth paste or small bars of soap instead of economical sized one . Due to malnourishment, many maids has to be turn back due to TB. (Indon maids has more treatable VD upon arrival).

But there are exceptions if you look deeper. Many men are just as hardworking. I think they have lots of disadvantages living for generations on a predominant island culture. I sailed to an island and was shocked to find many children there who were mongoloids. Mahathir in his book "The Malay dilemma" described the same situation as Malaysia has similar island based culture.

Your daughter better be aware before she marries one. Pinoys tend to be playboys like Estrada guy and have small penises (google search). Marrying a mixed Chinese pinoy may not help much if he not endowed with wealth. Like Babas, who old hokkiens used racial slurs like baba siow (baba sperms), they have inter-breed with the locals diluting their genes pools since Admiral ChengHo days. They may pray to the same household chinese gods or keeping Chinese surnames. But damage may have been done generations ago. Same as Indonesian chinese who lives in medan or in the heart of borneo. Something not quite right in their heads when engage them.

For Pinays as wives, the smarter ones are found working here. Loyal but like to hold your finances tightly. A big plus if your financial management is poor.

Some of the details are anecdotes. Its is always been fun talking to an older folks with have lucid memories of their childhood neighbours and who have traveled all over the world including various ports of South East Asia, whose observance I have written down, including my trips and working alongside my pinoy colleagues.
 
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